I hooked up with my latest girlfriend again. I had the urge for tequila and animal sex, so I called her up. We went to dinner, did the deed, and while sitting back afterwards, a friend called her up (a female friend) and told her how much Mike missed her and had been talking about her.
"So, is Mike in the picture again?"
"No, he isn't." She said nervously.
"He is. I'm not attacking you. I just want to never be with you again if you are getting back with this shit."
"Well, I was with him for a very long time and always expected to be with him."
"I guess then that him stealing from you, cheating on you and treating you horribly is okay?"
"I love him."
"I know." I said and got dressed.
I took off and got back to my computer in time for a latest email from a girl named Lisa I was hooking up with about a year and a half ago. It made me realize: most women settle for - and love complete jerks. They consider themselves lucky to find a nice guy, even just for a while. This makes a nice guy the perfect player. He comes, he fucks, he moves on. The jerk gets to marry the woman and take care of her. He cheats on her, hits her and humiliates her - but this is the only kind of man most women can possibly love. They cannot love a good man, but they can sure fuck his lights out.
Take the hint - never marry, just use women for sex. Very good women will find very good men, but for most of us, women ain't nothin but hos and tricks. Sad but true...
Tuesday
Wednesday
People Sometimes Ask Me....
Why is it that I don't have the stress levels of most people.
Well, I get along about 80% of the time with my business partners. The other 20% of the time, I just avoid them and get back to work.
I expect to get along with my girlfriend about 99% of the time - you know, like a traditional relationship where the woman is actively trying to please you, cooperate, and be a good helper and mate. You know, the kind of thing that NEVER happens anymore in Western society.
So, to keep stress levels low - or at least manageable in busy times, I delete girlfriends and focus on keeping business stress-free. Women will come and go, they just want attention from men; it can be abuse or neglect, love and kindness, or raw cruelty; any attention from a man will do - as long as someone is looking their way.
That is the secret, and the reason why I keep a close watch on women in my life. I don't care how hard they fall for me, I can leave within a weekend. I never let them keep things at my place, and cannot drop my life to focus on their drama. Don't let them do this to you.
Western men have forgotten how to look after themselves, so they take mountains of abuse and stress from women. The annoying part of one's life should be work, not home.
Well, I get along about 80% of the time with my business partners. The other 20% of the time, I just avoid them and get back to work.
I expect to get along with my girlfriend about 99% of the time - you know, like a traditional relationship where the woman is actively trying to please you, cooperate, and be a good helper and mate. You know, the kind of thing that NEVER happens anymore in Western society.
So, to keep stress levels low - or at least manageable in busy times, I delete girlfriends and focus on keeping business stress-free. Women will come and go, they just want attention from men; it can be abuse or neglect, love and kindness, or raw cruelty; any attention from a man will do - as long as someone is looking their way.
That is the secret, and the reason why I keep a close watch on women in my life. I don't care how hard they fall for me, I can leave within a weekend. I never let them keep things at my place, and cannot drop my life to focus on their drama. Don't let them do this to you.
Western men have forgotten how to look after themselves, so they take mountains of abuse and stress from women. The annoying part of one's life should be work, not home.
Sunday
Leaving Again
I am currently living with a woman who is wealthy, but who is very much hung up on her ex-boyfriend who is a cheating, dishonest, obnoxious shit of a man.
Oh well, life goes on.
I'm packing and leaving while she is on vacation. The best news is that three of her friends wanted to sleep with me, so I'll have another wealthy woman to shack up with. It is a very good thing not to have to pay bills, or pay for groceries or rent. I'm accumulating a lot of wealth while I live off of rich women.
When in Rome, I guess. Still, there is something horribly wrong when love and romance, family and commitment are simply foolish notions. Women's empowerment and bad decisions are paramount.
I wish I didn't live in a matriarchy.
Oh well, life goes on.
I'm packing and leaving while she is on vacation. The best news is that three of her friends wanted to sleep with me, so I'll have another wealthy woman to shack up with. It is a very good thing not to have to pay bills, or pay for groceries or rent. I'm accumulating a lot of wealth while I live off of rich women.
When in Rome, I guess. Still, there is something horribly wrong when love and romance, family and commitment are simply foolish notions. Women's empowerment and bad decisions are paramount.
I wish I didn't live in a matriarchy.
Saturday
Personal Revelation
I'd debated talking about this, but I think it matters.
About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a "good girl" type who really was good. She had good values, a very good body, but she was a bit hung up on the idea of finding a husband basically on income grounds.
She was so incredibly loving. She would touch my face and wake me up by kissing my tummy. We had incredible sex every day going on for what seemed like months at a time. I loved her like I never loved another woman. The chemistry was THERE. Very few relationships in life are like this. I felt a connection that was physical, spiritual, everything. She broke things off suddenly when I didn't propose on her timetable - and agree to have a child right away.
How did I react? I immediately got into two stupid and pointless sex relationships with two Jewish girls - my main weakness.
I'm over all that stupidity now, and in a casual relationship I've described a few times on this blog. If I stay, I'll have her pay all the bills while I get my life in order and my ownership stake in the corporation grows. Eventually, I can walk away from my current fuckbuddy and make any choices I want.
Which leads me back to Cherie.
I cannot seem to emotionally detach from her and it has been a very long time since we've seen each other. I know she is still single, and I'd love to have her in my life. I'm hoping I won't make a stupid decision, but sometimes the combination of love, sex, beauty and spirituality takes over from common sense.
I guess what I'm leading to is that we don't always have control. Some women break all the rules and make life a transcendental experience. I guess this means I'm not a misogynist, but maybe one of the lucky ones who can discern whether or not a woman is trash or a rare prize. I don't know - but I will keep everyone posted on how things go.
About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a "good girl" type who really was good. She had good values, a very good body, but she was a bit hung up on the idea of finding a husband basically on income grounds.
She was so incredibly loving. She would touch my face and wake me up by kissing my tummy. We had incredible sex every day going on for what seemed like months at a time. I loved her like I never loved another woman. The chemistry was THERE. Very few relationships in life are like this. I felt a connection that was physical, spiritual, everything. She broke things off suddenly when I didn't propose on her timetable - and agree to have a child right away.
How did I react? I immediately got into two stupid and pointless sex relationships with two Jewish girls - my main weakness.
I'm over all that stupidity now, and in a casual relationship I've described a few times on this blog. If I stay, I'll have her pay all the bills while I get my life in order and my ownership stake in the corporation grows. Eventually, I can walk away from my current fuckbuddy and make any choices I want.
Which leads me back to Cherie.
I cannot seem to emotionally detach from her and it has been a very long time since we've seen each other. I know she is still single, and I'd love to have her in my life. I'm hoping I won't make a stupid decision, but sometimes the combination of love, sex, beauty and spirituality takes over from common sense.
I guess what I'm leading to is that we don't always have control. Some women break all the rules and make life a transcendental experience. I guess this means I'm not a misogynist, but maybe one of the lucky ones who can discern whether or not a woman is trash or a rare prize. I don't know - but I will keep everyone posted on how things go.
Thursday
Interesting Observation
I've noticed a lot of women love to say "men are pigs!" and curse every man as a predator or liar, or God knows what else. However, the reason women think men are pigs - is simply because they are attracted to arrogance, obnoxiousness and vulgarity. Most women love the most base nature of men.
I've had multiple sexual relationships with women who say they are tired of a bad husband or a crappy boyfriend and want to move on. I treat them with respect, have a few months of good sex and then move on. They are always bewildered by the breakup, but I always remind them: you gave everything you have to give to men who care nothing for you. What do you give to me?
The look of shock on their faces is amazing. They never thought that giving everything to crappy guys would make them have no value to good men. No guy wants to marry a slut, or have a long-term emotional connection to a woman who prefers bar trash guys.
It's a shame really. So many women give themselves so willingly to the worst of men, then wonder why their lives are empty, filled with pain and disruption and disappointment. If you choose bad people in your life, you have to accept the consequences.
It's this reality in the West that leads insightful observers to admire the Islamic system. Women shouldn't have the right to choose predators, cheaters, liars and immoral fools as partners. However, given complete freedom, they always favor the most awful men.
Women are quick to point out that "good guys always win in the end". But which "good guys" want to be with a used up slut who has given all of her love and energies to dirtbags and bar trash? I'm glad I married a virgin and had a traditional experience. Most men marry girls who fucked lots of guys in high school and college. What kind of a prize is that? What kind of confidence can one have in a slut with no morals.
It isn't a good thing to realize, but many Western women are absolute trash. It really is a tragedy. Most men aren't angels either, but women seem to be running toward destruction much more quickly these days.
Oh well, people have to accept the consequences of their choices.
I've had multiple sexual relationships with women who say they are tired of a bad husband or a crappy boyfriend and want to move on. I treat them with respect, have a few months of good sex and then move on. They are always bewildered by the breakup, but I always remind them: you gave everything you have to give to men who care nothing for you. What do you give to me?
The look of shock on their faces is amazing. They never thought that giving everything to crappy guys would make them have no value to good men. No guy wants to marry a slut, or have a long-term emotional connection to a woman who prefers bar trash guys.
It's a shame really. So many women give themselves so willingly to the worst of men, then wonder why their lives are empty, filled with pain and disruption and disappointment. If you choose bad people in your life, you have to accept the consequences.
It's this reality in the West that leads insightful observers to admire the Islamic system. Women shouldn't have the right to choose predators, cheaters, liars and immoral fools as partners. However, given complete freedom, they always favor the most awful men.
Women are quick to point out that "good guys always win in the end". But which "good guys" want to be with a used up slut who has given all of her love and energies to dirtbags and bar trash? I'm glad I married a virgin and had a traditional experience. Most men marry girls who fucked lots of guys in high school and college. What kind of a prize is that? What kind of confidence can one have in a slut with no morals.
It isn't a good thing to realize, but many Western women are absolute trash. It really is a tragedy. Most men aren't angels either, but women seem to be running toward destruction much more quickly these days.
Oh well, people have to accept the consequences of their choices.
Tuesday
Women Change Over Time?
They love the shits when they are young, and sometimes longer. I've known women in their forties still working their way through the players, losers and married cheaters. They don't understand that what they want causes them pain. Decent guys who bring them pleasure are definitely what they don't want.
Still, as they age, they want the decent guy more and more. Lots of guys write to me and ask what they should do. Should they settle for women who have banged every shithead in town and then marry her? No way! Don't go doing that! Move in with her, use her place, her stuff, eat her cooking, use her sexually, but NEVER marry her. Women have decided that the worst kind of men are the best kind, so oblige them. Let them have their assholes.
But, if you find you need one temporarily, romance one and use her. She wants this. She wants to fall in love, have a good time, and then have you break her heart to pieces. One of the reasons women love jerks is that the breakup is easy. When they are hit, cheated on, lied to, etc., they find it pretty simple to say goodbye. But when the guy is decent, loving and caring, it hurts like hell to lose him. Still, this is the experience they are looking for. I've put two different women into counseling by breaking up with them once they had fallen completely in love with me. The reason? Because we both knew they preferred the cheater, the player, the married shithead out for a quick affair. They didn't really want a decent guy and never do.
Enjoy them for a time, but move on before you get bored. If you stay too long, she'll dump you for an asshole anyway. Just try and give her what she wants; a little shabby treatment and a ruthless breakup. She'll see you as a jerk, and that's what women really want.
Still, as they age, they want the decent guy more and more. Lots of guys write to me and ask what they should do. Should they settle for women who have banged every shithead in town and then marry her? No way! Don't go doing that! Move in with her, use her place, her stuff, eat her cooking, use her sexually, but NEVER marry her. Women have decided that the worst kind of men are the best kind, so oblige them. Let them have their assholes.
But, if you find you need one temporarily, romance one and use her. She wants this. She wants to fall in love, have a good time, and then have you break her heart to pieces. One of the reasons women love jerks is that the breakup is easy. When they are hit, cheated on, lied to, etc., they find it pretty simple to say goodbye. But when the guy is decent, loving and caring, it hurts like hell to lose him. Still, this is the experience they are looking for. I've put two different women into counseling by breaking up with them once they had fallen completely in love with me. The reason? Because we both knew they preferred the cheater, the player, the married shithead out for a quick affair. They didn't really want a decent guy and never do.
Enjoy them for a time, but move on before you get bored. If you stay too long, she'll dump you for an asshole anyway. Just try and give her what she wants; a little shabby treatment and a ruthless breakup. She'll see you as a jerk, and that's what women really want.
Friday
Desperate? Marry that Loser!
Lori Gottlieb, writing in The Atlantic, advises old burnt-out feminists to marry less-than desirable mates - if they want husbands at all.
Oh, poor thing. She couldn't find a husband, so she went to a sperm bank and got pregnant. Now she finds that a husband would be such a good thing to have. My goodness, look at those dads playing ball with their kids and being happy.
...shame he doesn't have hair.
...shame he is a little chubby.
...oh, he doesn't earn more than me.
... I don't like that amount of body hair.
... he isn't as attractive as I deserve.
... I want someone who earns at least a quarter million per year.
... He needs to be very damn good looking.
... He must be a god in bed.
Did I miss anything? The poor aging feminist who is complaining that she has no choices. They yearn for a man to lead them, love them, and help them raise children. What do they get instead? They have each other. Old bitter feminists who enjoyed Alpha males and spent their love and sexual energy simply being entertainment for random men. At least prostitutes are honest and got something for all that sleeping around. Now all these old women have is each other. Men are still horrible, stupid pigs nobody could want, but Mother Nature is no fool.
Women ache for a man, but ordinary decent men will not compromise and marry them. Feminism pays some painful dividends. Solitude, bitterness and confusion. These women have great careers, big social circles, and everything is going great in their lives. Where then are the ideal, perfect, wealthy men? Put simply, they are avoiding the career chicks and looking for traditional women - or simply staying single and having a good time.
Sounds like a good plan for men.
Oh, poor thing. She couldn't find a husband, so she went to a sperm bank and got pregnant. Now she finds that a husband would be such a good thing to have. My goodness, look at those dads playing ball with their kids and being happy.
...shame he doesn't have hair.
...shame he is a little chubby.
...oh, he doesn't earn more than me.
... I don't like that amount of body hair.
... he isn't as attractive as I deserve.
... I want someone who earns at least a quarter million per year.
... He needs to be very damn good looking.
... He must be a god in bed.
Did I miss anything? The poor aging feminist who is complaining that she has no choices. They yearn for a man to lead them, love them, and help them raise children. What do they get instead? They have each other. Old bitter feminists who enjoyed Alpha males and spent their love and sexual energy simply being entertainment for random men. At least prostitutes are honest and got something for all that sleeping around. Now all these old women have is each other. Men are still horrible, stupid pigs nobody could want, but Mother Nature is no fool.
Women ache for a man, but ordinary decent men will not compromise and marry them. Feminism pays some painful dividends. Solitude, bitterness and confusion. These women have great careers, big social circles, and everything is going great in their lives. Where then are the ideal, perfect, wealthy men? Put simply, they are avoiding the career chicks and looking for traditional women - or simply staying single and having a good time.
Sounds like a good plan for men.
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