I'm dating someone right now, but not seriously - and I am keeping finances separate and not taking chances with pregnancy. In other words, I'm having the fun without the headaches.
Everything was going fine. We had messed around in bed all afternoon and were drinking wine on the sofa when "Michael" called. Michael insisted my girl come and pick him up at the airport.
"Who is this guy?" I asked.
"Just a guy who wanted to date me, but we're just friends." She explained.
"He knows you have plans with me and he's insisting you pick his sorry ass up?"
She stammered and stuttered and apologized. Apparently, this ex-frat guy who has had lots of women around him in life had not been able to force my girl into bed. It drove him crazy and he couldn't stop thinking about her. I did ask the girl why she continued having any association with a guy she really didn't like and who was frustrated because he couldn't poke her. She didn't know why, but she felt the guys who were unavailable, and yet guys she didn't want, were really desirable guys - just to have around.
Insane, right?
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8 comments:
No mystery there. Chicks like to keep safe males around as guy friends. It's the best of both worlds for them. They get all the benefits of having a guy around to do stuff for them but they will never do anything in return for them. Like pick them up from airports. This is a good example of why you never want to be the guy friend.
and you believed her
You have to be able to read people pretty well to avoid traps. I need to post an update on what's been happening...
she was testing you. hope you were the man in this situation. so what was the outcome?
I broke it off last night and she's very upset. I have her family and friends calling and begging me to reconsider. Apparently, I'm the best thing to happen to her in years. They all don't want to see her hurt again, but I don't really care at this point.
It might seem a bit cold hearted, but this is the umpteenth time I've been through this. The family and friends like the decent guy, the girl loves the dirtbag.
Oh well... on to the next one.
that's the attitude! women love that drama bullshit and the more people involved the better...and you didn't get suckered into it. kudos!
Having the family and friends call you is just, well ... creepy and way, way fucked up.
creepy indeed.
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