Best wishes to all my readers and thanks for the support.
I had a long talk with a friend tonight. He is in Florida and I'm a few states away. Again, he's broken hearted as his current girlfriend won't accept his marriage proposal.
She's had six "serious" relationships which all included sex and love and living together. In short, she isn't fit for love and marriage. She is what most of us realize is a short-term whore. Most single women over 25 are exactly this; they want to have lots of sexual experience and worship the low-life guys. Of course, they are always on the lookout for the "save for later" guys; you know, the ones who are faithful and decent, and most of all earn a decent salary.
Don't be the last sex partner in a very long line. Think of it this way; would you propose to a woman who had just fucked an entire football team? That's about the amount of sexual experience most single women have had. Unless you meet a woman from a very traditional society or religious group, they are pretty much used up prostitutes by age 30. It's sad, but that's the way it is in Western society.
A "buraq" or "barack" is the mythical beast rode by Muhammad to meet with Allah. Islamic scholars used to brag that a Muslim flag would fly over America by 2010. I guess it got here early.
Obama is very bad for America. For all the abuse Republicans take, Obama is far, far worse.
The old America of compromise, debate, and sanity is over. It's now a very bad thing to be a Republican at any level. My advice? Don't advertise the fact that you care about American productivity, a healthy economy and national pride. Simply say you like Obama and move on.
It's going to be weird for a number of years.
When you are with a woman, being the boyfriend for a while and having sex, you will catch the attention of her friends very quickly. The single friends will not want you around. The married friends will be happy for you.
The single friends will envy your girlfriend and try and take her man away. If they cannot do that, they will look for negatives in the new boyfriend until they cause problems.
Generally, since I'm only looking for short-term girlfriends, I pay close attention to the friends. With this girl I'm about to break up with, one of her friends is very negative about single men, the other is desperately trying to find things about me that she doesn't like. Eventually, I will have to make a stand and confront this issue with her friends. She won't confront them, so I'll have to break off the relationship.
She gets her friends back; and they are all single again, so they are all Best Friends Forever yet again while they wait for some perfect guy to come along. Of course, they'll go back to screwing every guy they meet for a while, but I don't care. I'm long gone by then.
Women's friends will do anything to help destroy their friends relationships. It creates possibilities for them, while keeping all the girls single; so they will be able to share the same experiences.
One thing you probably already know is that Match.com is for guys looking for relatively safe sluts. I've gone out on one-time dates with women who have been on Match.com for months and months. They've fucked guys here and there, told me they've learned a lot and had some fun, and now they are looking for a good guy.
Stop. Rewind. Let's back this bitch up.
Any woman who fucked around on Match.com is NOT fit for a relationship. It is player central. It is for guys who use women for sex and then dump them. If you are into this, go for it. The girls love being used and dumped. If you want a halfway-decent woman, avoid the Match.com women completely.
Again, be very careful and wear condoms if you date women from Match.com. I've heard some horror stories recently, you don't want to be careless with these women.
I got a lot of feedback on the last post, most of it from women and all of it saying the same things. Many women tell me that they were "forced" into being promiscuous because of peer pressure. "There is tremendous peer pressure to sleep around", they say. It starts in the last year of high school and is very powerful in college. Many women don't want to be sluts, but they find they have one sex partner after another, after another, after another...
Then something interesting happens. They find a guy they really bond with for some reason. They might really like his face, or some other body part, or general manner, or money, or family, etc. This one special Mr. Wonderful type guy really rings their bells and they feel this is a a soul mate.
Of course, it rarely works out and they have this lost love in their past. No guy can ever measure up to that one special guy - who is usually very ordinary, but they have fixated for some reason.
I've dated lots of these women, and they always sleep with me in the first three weeks. They want so desperately to be loved, so it's a mix of emotions when they find themselves becoming attached to me while still yearning for their Mr. Wonderful. This is where the tragic reality comes in; they want to be loved, but they feel honor-bound and emotionally locked into the Mr. Wonderful from the past. It doesn't matter if he is dead, married, drunk, gay, whatever.
The Time of Confusion is what I call it. They still really love Mike, Greg, Paul, Rick, or whoever, but they are starting to get involved with the new guy. This is the time to break up. I've broken up with at least five women at this stage. It hurts them, but it preserves their dignity and honor. They still have the last man; it doesn't matter if they lose a really good man or someone who really loves them, they still have Mr. Wonderful.
It's interesting to realize what this does. It gives you a legitimate out while giving her all the respect in the world. She wants to be with you, but she could NEVER give up the wonderful memories and possible reconnection to the special perfect someone.
To give you an example, I've been in a great relationship with a woman who simply adores me. The sex is great - she can't have children, so no protection and she cooks for me and gives me massages, etc. I couldn't be happier. Still, there are many women like this that want to be with me, so I don't place too high of a value on it. She is starting to really fall for me, but there is a boyfriend on the back burner; a guy she almost married and simply adores. Even though nobody thinks they will get back together, I always plant small seeds of possibility in her mind. On night we were walking and I asked if she would ever marry me. She said "Well, you know, marriage is the leading cause of divorce." I paused and said, "It's funny, we are so happy together but you'd never marry me. Mark treated you like dog shit and you were engaged and about to get married last year." She paused and we moved on to other topics.
I very softly reminded her of the depth of commitment she had with Mark, despite it being an unhappy relationship. At the same time, I confirmed that she would never commit to me. Here and there she mentions him and I let her talk. When I break things off - in about two weeks, she will be very upset, but she knows that Mark is available. Despite the abuse and the pain, they were engaged, and he is still on her mind. I've had my fun; I enjoyed her - emotionally and physically, and now it's time to give her back to Mark. He will be so happy to have her back that he'll behave for a while before he starts emotionally ripping her apart. She'll be back where she is comfortable.
And the cycle repeats. I move on to the next one, stay through the Time of Confusion, then move on. You have to do this gently and plan ahead. In one relationship a few years ago, I stayed through the Time of Confusion and the girl got really, really, really hurt; BUT, she did admit she was still hung up on her previous boyfriend. Stay, have fun, enjoy; when they start to fall for you, remind them very deftly of the love they once had. Let them talk their hearts out about these wonderful guys who care nothing for them. Then move on. They'll remember you in a positive light, and the possibility of being with their true love is still alive. Everyone wins.
I went to a dinner party last night and heard a lot of interesting conversation. One of the women at the table had found a new boyfriend she really liked. The other women jumped in and went on and on about how this woman had been a real "ho" in the year before she met the boyfriend. Lots of making out with strange guys in cars; four sexual relationships, etc.
You could see the new boyfriend's face change ever so slightly. No guy likes hearing that his love interest is a whore, but he seemed to hide it very well. On the way home, I realized I had heard this before. Lots of single women are having a wonderful time screwing random men and the guys are happy with the result. They promise a long-term relationship, fuck the women for a few weeks, then move on to the next girl. The women who are used like this come to enjoy the experience. They simply love the "falling in love and hot sex" part of the relationship. If the guy disappears, they move on to the next guy.
But what about that guy at the dinner party who seemed like an ordinary decent guy? He probably thought his girlfriend was serious about him. Watching the change in him after the girls talked about her sordid past was revealing.
There are no good guys left because the good guys are either locked in sexless marriages, waiting long stretches between sexual encounters as singles, or they find themselves in relationships with trashy women who have hidden their past. None of these are desirable situations.
Women could fix this tomorrow by keeping their legs closed unless a long-term relationships is involved. Will that happen? Hardly. The only alternative is for men to use women as free whores and move on before things get too serious. You can be happy, or the women can be happy. There's no way for both parties to be happy these days. You may as well look out for yourself.