I'm dating someone right now, but not seriously - and I am keeping finances separate and not taking chances with pregnancy. In other words, I'm having the fun without the headaches.
Everything was going fine. We had messed around in bed all afternoon and were drinking wine on the sofa when "Michael" called. Michael insisted my girl come and pick him up at the airport.
"Who is this guy?" I asked.
"Just a guy who wanted to date me, but we're just friends." She explained.
"He knows you have plans with me and he's insisting you pick his sorry ass up?"
She stammered and stuttered and apologized. Apparently, this ex-frat guy who has had lots of women around him in life had not been able to force my girl into bed. It drove him crazy and he couldn't stop thinking about her. I did ask the girl why she continued having any association with a guy she really didn't like and who was frustrated because he couldn't poke her. She didn't know why, but she felt the guys who were unavailable, and yet guys she didn't want, were really desirable guys - just to have around.
Insane, right?
Sunday
The 90-Day Standard
More and more men are opting for the 90 day relationship. It has a lot of advantages. You get all the fun and excitement of great sex with a new woman, you enjoy discovering someone who is going to treat you well at the outset, you get gifts and favors, etc.
Of course, after 90 days, the woman is going to start making demands. She will start pressing for a relationship, start making changes (or attempting to make changes) in the guys life, laying down ultimatums, etc.
If you are there for the first 90 days and then break it off, you will have a good time and you won't have the usual problems that come with a mature relationship.
Of course, after 90 days, the woman is going to start making demands. She will start pressing for a relationship, start making changes (or attempting to make changes) in the guys life, laying down ultimatums, etc.
If you are there for the first 90 days and then break it off, you will have a good time and you won't have the usual problems that come with a mature relationship.
Recommended Reading
Probably the best MRA blog out there is in operation again. I hadn't seen it in months, but I guess the lazy sod started blogging again. Eternal Bachelor.
Saturday
In a Temporary Relationship
I'm dating a very successful businesswoman now - and it is a lot of fun. She is very funny and intelligent and works in the banking industry. She is three years older than I am and we seem to be a very compatible couple.
I earn a good salary and live well, but this woman is a millionaire and will be when she retires. I've never dated anyone this successful and she seems to have the inclination to want to take care of me. She is open to getting me a new car, replacing my wardrobe and buying me a motorcycle.
Ironically, all of this is happening at a time when my professional position is taking off very quickly. I'm doing very well and dating someone who is doing very well.
I think I'm going to get all I can and move on after a while. Why not? Right?
I earn a good salary and live well, but this woman is a millionaire and will be when she retires. I've never dated anyone this successful and she seems to have the inclination to want to take care of me. She is open to getting me a new car, replacing my wardrobe and buying me a motorcycle.
Ironically, all of this is happening at a time when my professional position is taking off very quickly. I'm doing very well and dating someone who is doing very well.
I think I'm going to get all I can and move on after a while. Why not? Right?
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