I'm dating someone right now, but not seriously - and I am keeping finances separate and not taking chances with pregnancy. In other words, I'm having the fun without the headaches.
Everything was going fine. We had messed around in bed all afternoon and were drinking wine on the sofa when "Michael" called. Michael insisted my girl come and pick him up at the airport.
"Who is this guy?" I asked.
"Just a guy who wanted to date me, but we're just friends." She explained.
"He knows you have plans with me and he's insisting you pick his sorry ass up?"
She stammered and stuttered and apologized. Apparently, this ex-frat guy who has had lots of women around him in life had not been able to force my girl into bed. It drove him crazy and he couldn't stop thinking about her. I did ask the girl why she continued having any association with a guy she really didn't like and who was frustrated because he couldn't poke her. She didn't know why, but she felt the guys who were unavailable, and yet guys she didn't want, were really desirable guys - just to have around.