The Obnoxious, Dishonest Jackass: Women adore these men. These are the guys most men hate. They may or may not be high-status men, but they are arrogant and overly-confident. They see women only as something to ejaculate into, and care absolutely nothing for them as human beings. Women typically adore these men as "authentic" or "very masculine", and it takes them many years if not an entire lifetime to realize these aren't real men, just real assholes. Women go to elaborate lengths to claim they don't really like these guys; but of course - women are only saying "men are pigs", because they prefer the guys who treat them like shit.
The Weak, Controllable, Modern "Equality-Minded" Guy: Women generally flock to these men once they have realized how unhappy the Obnoxious Dishonest Jackass has made them. After having children and spending their youth on the jerks, they suddenly want a man who is kind, considerate, and loving to them. Of course, they've already given what is best about them to the worst guys who care nothing for them. How do they reward Mr. Nice Guy? - by controlling him! The Weak, Controllable, Modern guy is so fucking nice that he'll do anything, put up with a complete loss of control, just for the remote chance of sex a few times a year.
What to do?
If you enjoy relationships with women, don't commit! Keep your relationships to the 90-day cycle. If you stop looking forward to sex, or she wants to convert you to a controllable type, it's time to leave. Remember, that most women dramatically understate the number of sex partners they've had. Most women still adore jerks, but they eventually change and want someone to control - a walking ATM, a household servant, someone to watch Lifetime Movies with.
Even if you aren't naturally a jerk, if you want to really enjoy being with women, you have to remember NEVER to fully commit to a woman. They'll only really love you if you are a complete shit, or a complete slave. The equality and partnership they always seem to say they want is a complete lie. They want to dominate or be dominated. Anything else is simply a standoff - it doesn't work in relationships between men and women. Either be absolutely in control, or be absolutely controlled.