Wednesday

"Personals" Advice

Recently, one of the major sites - either MSN or Yahoo did a story on their singles site about how rotten shits do so much better in the dating world than do "decent guys".

We were told....

"Girls, you know the bad boys are more fun! He's good looking and confident and great in bed! He doesn't call you, doesn't care if you drop dead after he ejaculates, but he's the best the world has to offer. He'll cheat on you, give you a sexually transmitted disease, and you'll most likely spend decades of your life sexually and emotionally serving these shits who give you nothing in return."

But, the good news for "decent guys" is that you losers will eventually win in the end. After these women have been permanently emotionally and physically damaged or even ruined by the worst kind of men, these women will be done with sex and romance. That's your chance! You'll win the prize and get the love of the women you've always wanted. Of course she'll be bitter, jaded, prone to herpes outbreaks, fat, 3 kids and lots of emotional baggage, but you won't have to wait anymore. The jerks will finally be done using her and you can have her!

Isn't that great?!? Good guys do win the "prize" in the end...

*** I see this kind of bullshit in more and more "singles" venues. The women who worship assholes really don't deserve any attention from decent, shy or gentle type guys they normally avoid. Why should good guys pick up the shit women after the shit guys are done with them? I've had many women literally throw themselves at me after a lifetime worshiping shitheads. I wish them good luck and move on. There are plenty of women for a decent guy. Just remember the basics:

NEVER date a woman who has EVER been promiscuous.
NEVER date a woman who has EVER dated a married man - even non-sexually.
NEVER date a woman who is big on the "really bad boys".
NEVER date a woman who loves to share her memories of the assholes she used to date.

That leaves only a few good women out there to date, but women don't deserve nice guys or decent guys, or shy guys, or nerdy guys. They deserve the shits they are attracted to - what the mass media tells them to love.

Tuesday

Are You Hiring Women?

I don't. I won't hire a woman unless she is over 40.

Younger women are amazing in their similarities. It's true what they say about a "herd" mentality. The vast majority of women who come into my office asking for work are very promiscuous, very stupid, and ready for an easy job with a high paycheck.

"Why aren't my sales numbers better?"

Well, dear... you have to ask for the sale. Identify the need, present the solution and then wrap up the close. If you have the answer to their problem, sell it to them and get a payment.

"But I already said I was with our company. Don't they just give me an order?"

No, Jennie, sales work isn't easy. You have to do a lot of convincing. People won't pay for things that sound good. They pay for things they want and need.

"Forget this shit. I quit."

Don't let the door hit your fat ass on the way out.

This conversation is very typical in my office. The women are wonderful princesses, eating up jobs that men could do easily. I have five guys working the phones who are strong employees who have been with the company a long time. The rest of the chairs have been filled over and over with women who are convinced they want a big paycheck, but want none of that stuff called "work".

Of course my office demands effort and results. I don't run a government office of pencil-pushers. If I did, the law would FORCE me to hire a bunch of whiny fat bitch women who would do the absolute bare minimum or less while always looking for a reason to file a grievance against me or my office. I know government employees and they say it is now women's work. The women are forcing the men out. Vast government agencies are now about 90% women because the women only hire women and force out the men. They don't do anything except shuffle papers and vent their emotions. If the general public knew how wasteful and pointless MOST government agencies were, there would be mass hangings.

Nobody intentionally wants to hurt the feelings of women, but they don't need economy-destroying and resource-wasting jobs which serve no purpose. Why do our governments have such swollen employee lists? Because we HAVE to hire women and they don't want to work, they just want a paycheck. So every morning and every evening our freeways and roads are clogged with single women going to their pointless jobs. More and more men are in fields where they have to earn money. More and more men are doing commissioned work, dangerous work and law enforcement or military service. Women have all the cushy jobs where a big paycheck is guaranteed just for sitting around and talking about Oprah Winfrey.

Don't hire women unless they are over 40 or 45 and religious. Those women will work. Most of the others are just going to be a headache. Believe me, I've been a business owner or manager for the last 15 years. Women are a liability.

Ensure an Exit Strategy

Remember that women are very independent these days. Their hearts are yearning for love, safety and understanding, but their heads want independence. I've found the best sex partners to be the high-powered career chicks. They love having a good boyfriend - someone who is thoughtful and kind, and always ready to give them a good romp in bed. But still... they are so pathologically independent that they almost always end up blowing a good thing. They get too clingy, but still want you to keep a respectful distance. They want you to lead, but they get to make all the choices. It's impossible to please them, and they will always give you a way out.

Examples:

Ava simply adored her ex-boyfriend, though he had married and moved on years ago. She still wrote to him, emailed him, and they kept in "friendly" contact though no sex was involved. After I enjoyed her for a few months, I asked her to put some emotional distance between her and her now married ex-boyfriend. She refused, so I broke things off. She tried over and over to get us back together, but I wouldn't have it. She simply wouldn't move on from the past, so I let her live in the past. I had a very good relationship with her, but it was time to move on. She is still hurting from the experience with me, but she still has her memories of the guy who came before. It all worked out.

Lisa was a prominent real estate exec in her town and we hit it off instantly. Great sex, great fun, restaurants, concerts, etc. She was so clingy I asked for some time off. She told me she loved me and wanted to live together. She has a huge house (5400 sq feet) and tons of money, so I asked if she wanted me to move in. Even though she lived alone, she said it would be a mistake, that she valued her independence. Fine, I said and broke things off. She cried for weeks and begged me to come back. I simply asked if she would reconsider having a life with me, living together - if not in her house, in a place together. She said no, that she could never give up her independence. I told her to enjoy that independence and I left her alone.

Lynne was probably the best match I've ever had in life. We had so much fun together, but she was very attached to an ex-boyfriend who was very abusive and frequently cheated on her. She never did say goodbye to this guy and remained "friends" with him during our relationship. I told her she needed to make a decision about him, but she didn't take me seriously. Eventually I discovered that she was keeping him as an option in case I didn't work out. I told her that if she was making backup plans in our relationship, it meant she really wanted him. I've recently learned they are back together but they are having problems because she keeps talking about how good things were with me.

You see, women are independent and attracted to the guys who are the worst possible choices. That's why women always say Men are Pigs. Men aren't pigs, but the men women choose are the biggest assholes out there. They they paint all men with that same perspective and decent men aren't interested in paying for the sins of jerks. Good men walk away. That's what you should do when dealing with these enlightened and independent women.