They love the shits when they are young, and sometimes longer. I've known women in their forties still working their way through the players, losers and married cheaters. They don't understand that what they want causes them pain. Decent guys who bring them pleasure are definitely what they don't want.
Still, as they age, they want the decent guy more and more. Lots of guys write to me and ask what they should do. Should they settle for women who have banged every shithead in town and then marry her? No way! Don't go doing that! Move in with her, use her place, her stuff, eat her cooking, use her sexually, but NEVER marry her. Women have decided that the worst kind of men are the best kind, so oblige them. Let them have their assholes.
But, if you find you need one temporarily, romance one and use her. She wants this. She wants to fall in love, have a good time, and then have you break her heart to pieces. One of the reasons women love jerks is that the breakup is easy. When they are hit, cheated on, lied to, etc., they find it pretty simple to say goodbye. But when the guy is decent, loving and caring, it hurts like hell to lose him. Still, this is the experience they are looking for. I've put two different women into counseling by breaking up with them once they had fallen completely in love with me. The reason? Because we both knew they preferred the cheater, the player, the married shithead out for a quick affair. They didn't really want a decent guy and never do.
Enjoy them for a time, but move on before you get bored. If you stay too long, she'll dump you for an asshole anyway. Just try and give her what she wants; a little shabby treatment and a ruthless breakup. She'll see you as a jerk, and that's what women really want.
Tuesday
Friday
Desperate? Marry that Loser!
Lori Gottlieb, writing in The Atlantic, advises old burnt-out feminists to marry less-than desirable mates - if they want husbands at all.
Oh, poor thing. She couldn't find a husband, so she went to a sperm bank and got pregnant. Now she finds that a husband would be such a good thing to have. My goodness, look at those dads playing ball with their kids and being happy.
...shame he doesn't have hair.
...shame he is a little chubby.
...oh, he doesn't earn more than me.
... I don't like that amount of body hair.
... he isn't as attractive as I deserve.
... I want someone who earns at least a quarter million per year.
... He needs to be very damn good looking.
... He must be a god in bed.
Did I miss anything? The poor aging feminist who is complaining that she has no choices. They yearn for a man to lead them, love them, and help them raise children. What do they get instead? They have each other. Old bitter feminists who enjoyed Alpha males and spent their love and sexual energy simply being entertainment for random men. At least prostitutes are honest and got something for all that sleeping around. Now all these old women have is each other. Men are still horrible, stupid pigs nobody could want, but Mother Nature is no fool.
Women ache for a man, but ordinary decent men will not compromise and marry them. Feminism pays some painful dividends. Solitude, bitterness and confusion. These women have great careers, big social circles, and everything is going great in their lives. Where then are the ideal, perfect, wealthy men? Put simply, they are avoiding the career chicks and looking for traditional women - or simply staying single and having a good time.
Sounds like a good plan for men.
Oh, poor thing. She couldn't find a husband, so she went to a sperm bank and got pregnant. Now she finds that a husband would be such a good thing to have. My goodness, look at those dads playing ball with their kids and being happy.
...shame he doesn't have hair.
...shame he is a little chubby.
...oh, he doesn't earn more than me.
... I don't like that amount of body hair.
... he isn't as attractive as I deserve.
... I want someone who earns at least a quarter million per year.
... He needs to be very damn good looking.
... He must be a god in bed.
Did I miss anything? The poor aging feminist who is complaining that she has no choices. They yearn for a man to lead them, love them, and help them raise children. What do they get instead? They have each other. Old bitter feminists who enjoyed Alpha males and spent their love and sexual energy simply being entertainment for random men. At least prostitutes are honest and got something for all that sleeping around. Now all these old women have is each other. Men are still horrible, stupid pigs nobody could want, but Mother Nature is no fool.
Women ache for a man, but ordinary decent men will not compromise and marry them. Feminism pays some painful dividends. Solitude, bitterness and confusion. These women have great careers, big social circles, and everything is going great in their lives. Where then are the ideal, perfect, wealthy men? Put simply, they are avoiding the career chicks and looking for traditional women - or simply staying single and having a good time.
Sounds like a good plan for men.
Thursday
Where it Comes From
The Marketing of Evil by David Kupelian.
This is an interesting book which makes some solid points. Many people take all of their cues from popular culture, their values from Saturday Night Live. Women in particular are given to a herd mentality and struggle with being different from other women.
I see so many women reading Cosmopolitan or other "ladies" magazines. They believe what they see, emulate it, and then wonder why they are unhappy. They watch television and see it as reality. They read books about married women having affairs - and are convinced this is a good thing to do.
However, to belong, to be part of women's society, one has to be promiscuous, one must be cheapish; addicted to spending, wearing cosmetics, watching monumentally vapid television programming. One must be a "Cosmo-girl" to fit in. This ethic has destroyed countless women. I see so many of them late in life; the realization in their eyes that they've wasted their lives on a bunch of shit and dumb ideas.
When you give women unlimited freedom and legal authority over men, PLUS allow them to become wage slaves that exist only to buy consumer products of dubious purpose and worth, well.... you've pretty much destroyed these women. They are useless as wives, lovers, and completely foreign to motherhood. This is why many Western women reach mid-life with no children, no savings, and completely empty and used up.
It is a huge tragedy, but completely avoidable. Sad, really.
This is an interesting book which makes some solid points. Many people take all of their cues from popular culture, their values from Saturday Night Live. Women in particular are given to a herd mentality and struggle with being different from other women.
I see so many women reading Cosmopolitan or other "ladies" magazines. They believe what they see, emulate it, and then wonder why they are unhappy. They watch television and see it as reality. They read books about married women having affairs - and are convinced this is a good thing to do.
However, to belong, to be part of women's society, one has to be promiscuous, one must be cheapish; addicted to spending, wearing cosmetics, watching monumentally vapid television programming. One must be a "Cosmo-girl" to fit in. This ethic has destroyed countless women. I see so many of them late in life; the realization in their eyes that they've wasted their lives on a bunch of shit and dumb ideas.
When you give women unlimited freedom and legal authority over men, PLUS allow them to become wage slaves that exist only to buy consumer products of dubious purpose and worth, well.... you've pretty much destroyed these women. They are useless as wives, lovers, and completely foreign to motherhood. This is why many Western women reach mid-life with no children, no savings, and completely empty and used up.
It is a huge tragedy, but completely avoidable. Sad, really.
Tuesday
Amazing Difference
Recently, I had been reorganizing my office. Out with the whining fat chicks and in with the professional guys. Now I have three new guys working the phones and sales are UP. Instead of the incessant chatter about guys, shopping, moods, cramps, etc., now I have guys who work and earn.
I know some women are good workers, but the majority are not. The majority of women are a car crash of emotions almost every day. They get hurt so easily. They become confused so easily. I know the government might come after me, but I'm going to avoid hiring them as much as humanly possible from now on. An office full of men is far easier to manage than a henhouse full of women.
Hire women, women are pleased. Hire men, the boss is pleased and the workers are happy.
I know some women are good workers, but the majority are not. The majority of women are a car crash of emotions almost every day. They get hurt so easily. They become confused so easily. I know the government might come after me, but I'm going to avoid hiring them as much as humanly possible from now on. An office full of men is far easier to manage than a henhouse full of women.
Hire women, women are pleased. Hire men, the boss is pleased and the workers are happy.
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