Romantic and Silly Women

I got a lot of feedback on the last post, most of it from women and all of it saying the same things. Many women tell me that they were "forced" into being promiscuous because of peer pressure. "There is tremendous peer pressure to sleep around", they say. It starts in the last year of high school and is very powerful in college.  Many women don't want to be sluts, but they find they have one sex partner after another, after another, after another...

Then something interesting happens. They find a guy they really bond with for some reason. They might really like his face, or some other body part, or general manner, or money, or family, etc. This one special Mr. Wonderful type guy really rings their bells and they feel this is a a soul mate. 

Of course, it rarely works out and they have this lost love in their past. No guy can ever measure up to that one special guy - who is usually very ordinary, but they have fixated for some reason.

I've dated lots of these women, and they always sleep with me in the first three weeks. They want so desperately to be loved, so it's a mix of emotions when they find themselves becoming attached to me while still yearning for their Mr. Wonderful.  This is where the tragic reality comes in; they want to be loved, but they feel honor-bound and emotionally locked into the Mr. Wonderful from the past. It doesn't matter if he is dead, married, drunk, gay, whatever. 

The Time of Confusion is what I call it. They still really love Mike, Greg, Paul, Rick, or whoever, but they are starting to get involved with the new guy. This is the time to break up.  I've broken up with at least five women at this stage. It hurts them, but it preserves their dignity and honor. They still have the last man; it doesn't matter if they lose a really good man or someone who really loves them, they still have Mr. Wonderful.

It's interesting to realize what this does. It gives you a legitimate out while giving her all the respect in the world. She wants to be with you, but she could NEVER give up the wonderful memories and possible reconnection to the special perfect someone. 

To give you an example, I've been in a great relationship with a woman who simply adores me. The sex is great - she can't have children, so no protection and she cooks for me and gives me massages, etc.  I couldn't be happier. Still, there are many women like this that want to be with me, so I don't place too high of a value on it.  She is starting to really fall for me, but there is a boyfriend on the back burner; a guy she almost married and simply adores.  Even though nobody thinks they will get back together, I always plant small seeds of possibility in her mind. On night we were walking and I asked if she would ever marry me. She said "Well, you know, marriage is the leading cause of divorce."  I paused and said, "It's funny, we are so happy together but you'd never marry me.  Mark treated you like dog shit and you were engaged and about to get married last year."  She paused and we moved on to other topics. 

I very softly reminded her of the depth of commitment she had with Mark, despite it being an unhappy relationship.  At the same time, I confirmed that she would never commit to me.  Here and there she mentions him and I let her talk.  When I break things off - in about two weeks, she will be very upset, but she knows that Mark is available.  Despite the abuse and the pain, they were engaged, and he is still on her mind.  I've had my fun; I enjoyed her - emotionally and physically, and now it's time to give her back to Mark. He will be so happy to have her back that he'll behave for a while before he starts emotionally ripping her apart.  She'll be back where she is comfortable.

And the cycle repeats.  I move on to the next one, stay through the Time of Confusion, then move on.  You have to do this gently and plan ahead.  In one relationship a few years ago, I stayed through the Time of Confusion and the girl got really, really, really hurt; BUT, she did admit she was still hung up on her previous boyfriend.  Stay, have fun, enjoy; when they start to fall for you, remind them very deftly of the love they once had. Let them talk their hearts out about these wonderful guys who care nothing for them.  Then move on.  They'll remember you in a positive light, and the possibility of being with their true love is still alive.  Everyone wins.

The Happy Guys

I went to a dinner party last night and heard a lot of interesting conversation.  One of the women at the table had found a new boyfriend she really liked.  The other women jumped in and went on and on about how this woman had been a real "ho" in the year before she met the boyfriend.  Lots of making out with strange guys in cars; four sexual relationships, etc.  

You could see the new boyfriend's face change ever so slightly. No guy likes hearing that his love interest is a whore, but he seemed to hide it very well.  On the way home, I realized I had heard this before.  Lots of single women are having a wonderful time screwing random men and the guys are happy with the result. They promise a long-term relationship, fuck the women for a few weeks, then move on to the next girl.  The women who are used like this come to enjoy the experience. They simply love the "falling in love and hot sex" part of the relationship. If the guy disappears, they move on to the next guy.

But what about that guy at the dinner party who seemed like an ordinary decent guy?  He probably thought his girlfriend was serious about him.  Watching the change in him after the girls talked about her sordid past was revealing. 

There are no good guys left because the good guys are either locked in sexless marriages, waiting long stretches between sexual encounters as singles, or they find themselves in relationships with trashy women who have hidden their past.  None of these are desirable situations. 

Women could fix this tomorrow by keeping their legs closed unless a long-term relationships is involved.  Will that happen?  Hardly.  The only alternative is for men to use women as free whores and move on before things get too serious.  You can be happy, or the women can be happy. There's no way for both parties to be happy these days. You may as well look out for yourself. 

Our New President?

Barack Obama seems to be on his way to a historic landslide victory over John McCain. This is very bad news for the markets, for real estate values, for tax reasons, for social reasons, etc.  

But who would support this man?  An unreconstructed liberal socialist with no interest in free enterprise or capitalism?  There are a lot of people who need to feel someone is taking care of them. Most of these people are women and effeminate men.  

There are two political parties in America, the Daddy (GOP) Party and the Mommy (Dems) Party. Obama is a Mommy candidate in the Mommy party.  McCain is also a Mommy type, wanting government to solve problems, but he's an old grouch - part of the Daddy party. America didn't buy into feminism and equality for thirty years just to abandon it after 9/11.  No, there is a very real 55% of the electorate that wants security and care instead of opportunity. There are many who want to be ruled by university professors instead of business leaders.  It's now all Democrats all the time.  It will be this way for many years. 

When you destroy the American family, men become useless. Women become directionless and unhappy. Eventually, the comfort of an all-controlling government becomes very attractive, and people flock to leftist candidates. Women feel safe with councils, committees, agencies that police lives, policies that control any behavior. 

The fun, opportunity, good times of America are coming to an end. The racial hucksters and radical feminists are about to take over; and this isn't a temporary thing!  All three branches of our government are basically going to become arms of left-wing special interest groups. 

America is taking a disastrous turn it may not recover from.

Fewer Western Women having Babies

Current News Item

I find it interesting that many more people are staying single.  The idea that life should be work and drunken sex with strangers on the weekend has really taken hold. So much so that there is a movement for young women to get themselves sterilized. The story has come up in US and UK newspapers and women's magazines repeatedly. 

Why not have your tubes tied? Why have children? They are such an inconvenience.

Meanwhile, in reality...

The number of little Muhammads and Kadijas is growing exponentially. More and more mosques are popping up everywhere as Western women turn against their own men, betray our traditions, and feel equality is the doorway to hedonism and irresponsibility.  Bravo madame!

Over for the West?

There is a cultural perspective in the Western world that frowns on families and children. This seems absurd to say, but there are a great many more single in the West who are not married; have never been married - and have no interest in having children. 

I run a small organization in which only two of us are parents. The other 24 employees are childless; some are married, most are single and bouncing from one "relationship" to the next. When the topic of children comes up, as in; Are you planning on having any children?  The answer is invariably Oh, God no!

So many feel they are independent, progressive, better-educated, etc. Of course one would be a complete idiot to commit to a relationship and have children. I'm too selfish, they say. One in particular, a very attractive woman of about 35 talks at length about her oh-so-traditional parents who have a very happy marriage.  One can see the contempt and sarcasm she directs toward them. Is it really such a horrible thing to be happy?

I think it's already been said that too many Western women have given up. They aren't taught to be wives or companions, but rather Sex & The City trash. By age 35, most have had affairs with married men, had multiple sex partners, experimented with lesbianism, etc.  Even in their 40s and 50s, they are still focused on luxury living and seeking out the next thrill. Marriage isn't worth the effort because all men are pigs; all men are the same, so if all men are pigs, you better become one if you expect to have sex in your lifetime. 

No society on earth can continue with so many people living solitary and decadent lives. Of course, the end comes much more quickly when a population simply doesn't care - and virtue is the highest vice.  It's a shame really.