Only Two Types

Guys, if you are wondering what women want, you don't have to wonder any more. Women like two types of men.  They don't like both types at the same time, usually preferring one type when they are young, and the second type when they are older.

The Obnoxious, Dishonest Jackass:  Women adore these men. These are the guys most men hate. They may or may not be high-status men, but they are arrogant and overly-confident. They see women only as something to ejaculate into, and care absolutely nothing for them as human beings. Women typically adore these men as "authentic" or "very masculine", and it takes them many years if not an entire lifetime to realize these aren't real men, just real assholes. Women go to elaborate lengths to claim they don't really like these guys; but of course - women are only saying "men are pigs", because they prefer the guys who treat them like shit.

The Weak, Controllable, Modern "Equality-Minded" Guy:  Women generally flock to these men once they have realized how unhappy the Obnoxious Dishonest Jackass has made them.  After having children and spending their youth on the jerks, they suddenly want a man who is kind, considerate, and loving to them.  Of course, they've already given what is best about them to the worst guys who care nothing for them.  How do they reward Mr. Nice Guy? - by controlling him!  The Weak, Controllable, Modern guy is so fucking nice that he'll do anything, put up with a complete loss of control, just for the remote chance of sex a few times a year.  

What to do?

If you enjoy relationships with women, don't commit!  Keep your relationships to the 90-day cycle. If you stop looking forward to sex, or she wants to convert you to a controllable type, it's time to leave. Remember, that most women dramatically understate the number of sex partners they've had. Most women still adore jerks, but they eventually change and want someone to control - a walking ATM, a household servant, someone to watch Lifetime Movies with. 

Even if you aren't naturally a jerk, if you want to really enjoy being with women, you have to remember NEVER to fully commit to a woman.  They'll only really love you if you are a complete shit, or a complete slave. The equality and partnership they always seem to say they want is a complete lie.  They want to dominate or be dominated.  Anything else is simply a standoff - it doesn't work in relationships between men and women. Either be absolutely in control, or be absolutely controlled.  

Still Working...

New business, new hassles. I'm back to posting very soon.

Back for a last Romp

I hooked up with my latest girlfriend again. I had the urge for tequila and animal sex, so I called her up. We went to dinner, did the deed, and while sitting back afterwards, a friend called her up (a female friend) and told her how much Mike missed her and had been talking about her.

"So, is Mike in the picture again?"

"No, he isn't." She said nervously.

"He is. I'm not attacking you. I just want to never be with you again if you are getting back with this shit."

"Well, I was with him for a very long time and always expected to be with him."

"I guess then that him stealing from you, cheating on you and treating you horribly is okay?"

"I love him."

"I know." I said and got dressed.

I took off and got back to my computer in time for a latest email from a girl named Lisa I was hooking up with about a year and a half ago. It made me realize: most women settle for - and love complete jerks. They consider themselves lucky to find a nice guy, even just for a while. This makes a nice guy the perfect player. He comes, he fucks, he moves on. The jerk gets to marry the woman and take care of her. He cheats on her, hits her and humiliates her - but this is the only kind of man most women can possibly love. They cannot love a good man, but they can sure fuck his lights out.

Take the hint - never marry, just use women for sex. Very good women will find very good men, but for most of us, women ain't nothin but hos and tricks. Sad but true...

People Sometimes Ask Me....

Why is it that I don't have the stress levels of most people.

Well, I get along about 80% of the time with my business partners. The other 20% of the time, I just avoid them and get back to work.

I expect to get along with my girlfriend about 99% of the time - you know, like a traditional relationship where the woman is actively trying to please you, cooperate, and be a good helper and mate. You know, the kind of thing that NEVER happens anymore in Western society.

So, to keep stress levels low - or at least manageable in busy times, I delete girlfriends and focus on keeping business stress-free. Women will come and go, they just want attention from men; it can be abuse or neglect, love and kindness, or raw cruelty; any attention from a man will do - as long as someone is looking their way.

That is the secret, and the reason why I keep a close watch on women in my life. I don't care how hard they fall for me, I can leave within a weekend. I never let them keep things at my place, and cannot drop my life to focus on their drama. Don't let them do this to you.

Western men have forgotten how to look after themselves, so they take mountains of abuse and stress from women. The annoying part of one's life should be work, not home.

Leaving Again

I am currently living with a woman who is wealthy, but who is very much hung up on her ex-boyfriend who is a cheating, dishonest, obnoxious shit of a man.

Oh well, life goes on.

I'm packing and leaving while she is on vacation. The best news is that three of her friends wanted to sleep with me, so I'll have another wealthy woman to shack up with. It is a very good thing not to have to pay bills, or pay for groceries or rent. I'm accumulating a lot of wealth while I live off of rich women.

When in Rome, I guess. Still, there is something horribly wrong when love and romance, family and commitment are simply foolish notions. Women's empowerment and bad decisions are paramount.

I wish I didn't live in a matriarchy.

Personal Revelation

I'd debated talking about this, but I think it matters.

About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a "good girl" type who really was good. She had good values, a very good body, but she was a bit hung up on the idea of finding a husband basically on income grounds.

She was so incredibly loving. She would touch my face and wake me up by kissing my tummy. We had incredible sex every day going on for what seemed like months at a time. I loved her like I never loved another woman. The chemistry was THERE. Very few relationships in life are like this. I felt a connection that was physical, spiritual, everything. She broke things off suddenly when I didn't propose on her timetable - and agree to have a child right away.

How did I react? I immediately got into two stupid and pointless sex relationships with two Jewish girls - my main weakness.

I'm over all that stupidity now, and in a casual relationship I've described a few times on this blog. If I stay, I'll have her pay all the bills while I get my life in order and my ownership stake in the corporation grows. Eventually, I can walk away from my current fuckbuddy and make any choices I want.

Which leads me back to Cherie.

I cannot seem to emotionally detach from her and it has been a very long time since we've seen each other. I know she is still single, and I'd love to have her in my life. I'm hoping I won't make a stupid decision, but sometimes the combination of love, sex, beauty and spirituality takes over from common sense.

I guess what I'm leading to is that we don't always have control. Some women break all the rules and make life a transcendental experience. I guess this means I'm not a misogynist, but maybe one of the lucky ones who can discern whether or not a woman is trash or a rare prize. I don't know - but I will keep everyone posted on how things go.

Interesting Observation

I've noticed a lot of women love to say "men are pigs!" and curse every man as a predator or liar, or God knows what else. However, the reason women think men are pigs - is simply because they are attracted to arrogance, obnoxiousness and vulgarity. Most women love the most base nature of men.

I've had multiple sexual relationships with women who say they are tired of a bad husband or a crappy boyfriend and want to move on. I treat them with respect, have a few months of good sex and then move on. They are always bewildered by the breakup, but I always remind them: you gave everything you have to give to men who care nothing for you. What do you give to me?

The look of shock on their faces is amazing. They never thought that giving everything to crappy guys would make them have no value to good men. No guy wants to marry a slut, or have a long-term emotional connection to a woman who prefers bar trash guys.

It's a shame really. So many women give themselves so willingly to the worst of men, then wonder why their lives are empty, filled with pain and disruption and disappointment. If you choose bad people in your life, you have to accept the consequences.

It's this reality in the West that leads insightful observers to admire the Islamic system. Women shouldn't have the right to choose predators, cheaters, liars and immoral fools as partners. However, given complete freedom, they always favor the most awful men.

Women are quick to point out that "good guys always win in the end". But which "good guys" want to be with a used up slut who has given all of her love and energies to dirtbags and bar trash? I'm glad I married a virgin and had a traditional experience. Most men marry girls who fucked lots of guys in high school and college. What kind of a prize is that? What kind of confidence can one have in a slut with no morals.

It isn't a good thing to realize, but many Western women are absolute trash. It really is a tragedy. Most men aren't angels either, but women seem to be running toward destruction much more quickly these days.

Oh well, people have to accept the consequences of their choices.