The Impact of Sex & The City

More and more women are "living the dream". I know a woman named Valerie from work who sleeps with married men probably twice a week. I mean she actively searches for married men who are searching for an affair. In the past, she never would have done this, but after watching several seasons of the program Sex & The City, she is actively sleeping with married men.

She is very excited about her sex life and meets strange and dangerous people, but she says her life is more fun now - and she didn't even mind catching herpes from one of these losers.

I guess I was born at the wrong time. I really prefer a more traditional society. I know this woman isn't representative of most women, but there are a lot more trashy women these days.

Simply amazing.

Blast from the Past

My goodness! I just got an email from someone who found this blog - someone I used to date. I hadn't thought about her in a very long time. She read some of my blog entries and thinks I have problems. I'm supposed to accept that women make the decisions in life now- and men need to accept reality and go along with it.

I disagree with that, obviously, but there is no talking to some women. I was raised thinking that I would get married and be the leader of my own home and family. Lots of guys were raised that way. Now, having a family and spending all the money you need to spend is getting almost impossible. I know families who are barely scraping by; the wives watch television and get excited over the rich men and their independent wives spending money like crazy. Lifetime Channel is the worst. This girl who wrote to me used to watch it. There was a movie about a software engineer who was very rich who married some waitress and made all her dreams come true.

Right. Yeah, that will happen.

Too many women think that every other woman has a rich husband and that they "missed out".

I asked this girl who emailed me if she was dating anyone.

No. Not anyone right now. She is divorced, though.

He didn't earn enough money. She has a kid, but grandma raises the kid. Great....


Don't forget, women are independent and strong. They don't need men. They are happy without men and love going to sleep alone every night - sometimes after their bar pick-up fucks them and then leaves.

I have to admit there are some women who are hopelessly traditional despite their foolish behavior. I've had three women call me up and ask to go out on a date - all in the last year. Men simply aren't after them once they get past the age of 35. They still think they look good, but something crashes in a woman's self-concept when men aren't coming onto them anymore. It's especially hard on women who slept around a bit. When the men stop hitting on them, they realize all they ever had to offer was sex, nothing else.

The smart women are the ones who look for men who will see them as special. It's really too bad women think so little of themselves that they will sleep with anyone who buys them a drink.

Slumming It

I've run into several guys who brag about having very hot sex lives and I wonder what they are talking about. Some of these guys weigh over 350 pounds or have green and yellow teeth.

I ask: "Well, where did you meet this girl?"

Guy: "At Wal-Mart. She's a cashier. She wanted to cheat on her husband since he's in jail."

Ohhhhhhhhh, Ok! Now I get it.

Listen, I know that relationships between men and women are more fucked up now than ever before, but that doesn't mean you have to go all the way to the gutter for sex. There are so many insurance agents, real estate ladies, church women, mid-level managers, etc., that you really don't need to fuck some piece of trash who works at Wal-Mart.

I know someone who took his date to a Denny's and she said it was the nicest restaurant she had ever been to. I've been to many five star restaurants and most of them aren't worth their stars, but if a girl is impressed with Denny's, she needs to get out more.

My rule is simple, if you are embarrassed to be seen with a girl, then it's best not to go out with her. Once I was in DC with this girl going up to my room at the Holiday Inn. On the second floor the elevator stopped and another woman got in. She looked me up and down, then looked at my date with a disapproving look. I realized I had been shooting too low. I really liked the girl I was with, but I could have done better if I was just looking for some fun.

Don't slum it if you don't have to.

Giving Up

I've known so many guys who simply give up. Why put up with the nonsense today? Well, it isn't like we live in a complete hell. One can have an interesting and fulfilling life without traditional structures.

Recently though, I have noticed that there are a few more members of the "Ghost Nation" than I ever expected. I'm seeing a lot of guys between 32 and 50 who have very little dealings with women. Of course, after the age of 40, women can't keep a man just because of sex. Sex simply stops being such a powerful motivation. If a lot of women are willing to have a brief affair, there is simply no reason to get tied down to one woman only.

I'm offline until Saturday. Keep the faith...

Are Men Wizing Up?

I think it is true that a lot of men are finally taking action. I have a sales staff of six guys; five white, one black - and not one of them is married or plans to marry. They all have girlfriends at one time or another. One guy is really not very decent to women and specializes in one-nighters. Still, they all know someone close to them who has been destroyed through divorce.

One of my older associates has two daughters he never sees. He lives in Texas and his children live in Pennsylvania with their mother and stepfather. He is in poor health and cannot travel, so he simply doesn't see his children very often. He doesn't keep photos of them at work and doesn't talk about them very often. You see, when you are very close to your children and they are suddenly ripped away, it is more painful than death. It really can be.

When I was young, women never considered doing such things to their men. Now, they feel they "own" the children and don't give a passing thought to picking up children and moving them halfway across the country. Think it doesn't happen very often? Think again.

I've noticed lately that women still don't get it. Many women over 35 are starting; that's starting, to realize that a lifetime of abusing men or engaging in random casual sex is really a bad thing - and not good for the mind, body or spirit. Of course, men urged women not to embrace casual sex and foolish ideas, but there were enough jerks out there to use and discard women.

Many women are finding out that they have nobody late in life. When they most need to be loved and appreciated, the guys who in past years would have made ideal husbands are getting on with life without women. They still mess around with women now and then - but purely for recreation. You see, men might enjoy banging the ho's, but they sure the hell don't want to marry one. So, if you have lots of women who spent from age 15-40 sleeping around, the odds are very good that her skanky ass will be alone for the last half of her life.

If you don't want tradition - and you want to be free and easy with lots of guys, you don't get a prince charming, you don't get a decent guy. Men are aware that women are all simply playing them now. Even the sweetest, most romantic girl can turn into a manipulating divorce machine after a few years. It's a good thing that more men are 100% against marriage. The truth about women should be taught in schools.

Funny Story

I have a good friend who just met a woman for coffee. Here's her love life:

- she married her husband because they were good friends. After 11 years of marriage,
they realized there was absolutely no sexual chemistry between them. He left that night.

- she married another man quickly; a man she really loved. He cheated on her 8 times and
each time she forgave him. Finally, he admitted he simply didn't like her and moved on.

- now she is dating and will only date men with whom she feels there is "instant" chemistry.

Good luck with that!

Sheesh, it's true what they say - a lot of women are their own worst enemy.

My Job, Money and Women

My job is an interesting mix of doing things online and dropping into a sales office now and then. I was somewhat disorganized for a while, but now I'm earning some serious money. Let me tell you when I got my new car, the attention from women was amazing.

Before I was earning a lot, I wasn't even regarded as a human being. When I dropped into the office, the girls would look disinterested or not even say hello. Once my income jumped and I started wearing my Cartier watch and driving a new car, suddenly they always smiled. I also noticed at the grocery store or just out in public - women look at me as if they are getting aroused. It doesn't happen when I'm wearing a sweat shirt and tennis shoes, but often I'm out in a nice set of clothes with a nice watch on. When they see the car I'm getting out of, the looks are always positive.

Are women this shallow? Is money the only thing that matters? I think so. A very honest woman once told me that money is 95% of the equation. Humor, looks, values - none of that matters. Money is everything.

My Favorite Coworker

I work with this woman now and then who is about my age. She is single and after a lifetime of slutty behavior, she's suddenly gotten all fussy about sex. She says she is going to hold off on sex until she is married to her ideal man. Of course, she is over 35 and not many guys are going to marry an old whore, but who knows?

Anyway, I was sending off some FedExs when I realized she and her friends were chatting in the office. I got near the door and heard them talking divorce strategy. So, this woman is planning to marry so she can get as much of her "ideal" man's money and assets as possible. Keep in mind that this is a woman who supposedly has reformed herself both personally and sexually.

Well, I find out that she has been sleeping with our local married insurance agent named TJ. Wonderful. So she's still a slut and she is still plotting to destroy a decent man and take his money.

I see this with so many women. They now see men as disposable. If this is universally true - which is what I am seeing, then it is important to keep this in mind when dating.

Always wear condoms or get yourself fixed. Don't have children with Western women as they will never be satisfied with you and will take great pleasure in separating you from your children and stealing your assets and income.

Sound like a bitter divorced man talking? No, not at all. I've seen so many women being happy predators and literally destroying men. I've known one guy personally who killed himself after a pointless divorce (because his wife was "bored").

Things are different now. Feminism isn't the problem. Women are the problem. Until they change, treat them like the opportunistic devils they very often are.

Oh, the Blogosphere!

I've taken a ton of abuse from people over the last few days...

I never said I spoke for the Mens Rights Movement or the MGTOW movement. I do think there are a few jackasses pretending to be 007 Style secret agents or heads of industries. If some guys are pretending to be millionaire playboys, I feel I have the right to call them out on it.

I have noticed something about the anti-feminism movement. It is never going to get off the ground. Too many people feel there is an "orthodoxy" to the movement and everyone who is associated with anti-feminism has to agree with the standard talking points.

Don't be confused, I don't agree with the tenets of feminism and it has done enormous damage to women and families, but it is now part of the accepted popular culture - and most people don't even realize how much of it they buy into. Let me explain...

How many people think their daughters should be ready to marry young and stay at home? Not many. People with daughters want their girls to have all the advantages and choices that modern women have.

How many people think that we should return to a less permissive society when it comes to sexual matters? Not many. I would love to meet a non-slutty girl and settle down, but I'm not about to stay celibate for life just because most women sleep around.

When we are raised in a society which is far from ideal, we have to cope and adapt. If I do enter into relationships, I make it clear that I'm not interested in a marriage - mainly because the legal deck is stacked against me. When I date religious women, I let them know that I won't forget about sex just because their values suddenly changed at age 35. "Oh, I fucked a hundred guys but now I found Jesus, so I'll never sleep with you - and if we get married, sex is only for having children!" No thanks to that.

I'm not interested in restricting people's choices, but I am interested in coping. If women want to live out the story lines in the program Sex and The City, then I say let them! If they want to get together for wine and sex and then get back to screwing married men from work, I can't change their behavior. If they want to rule society, government and our churches, I'm sure as hell not going to cooperate with that.

What's wrong with being an individual, or being part of the Ghost Nation? Our society will never return to tradition. Even the most conservative people have confused roles and sordid lives. I'm pretty conservative by comparison, but I won't refuse to enjoy life just because most people are living very wrong.

Clear? Probably not, but it's my perspective.

Thanks for the Traffic!

The folks at antimisandry.com hate this blog.

Apparently, there are a lot of folks on the Internet who feel that only a certain perspective is acceptable in the MRA movement. That's good. They need a group collective consciousness to feel that all is well with the movement.

But ask yourselves:

Do you really want a world like the pre-sexual revolution 1960s and 1970s?

Do you really want a world where mostly men work and women are focused on the family?

I'm convinced women aren't interested in the "good old days" and are happy sleeping around and enjoying high salaries which they spend at the many retail outlets on almost every corner. It's a new world with a lot of shallow people in it. My point is to enjoy life as it is. I'm not a pick up artist, but I do have about 2-3 short term girlfriends per year. I have done one-night stands, but I'm not interested in doing it regularly. I do make a decent income, but I'm not a complete liar like the guy who writes Mirror of the Soul.

If you want to be happy in a world where divorce is common and people are disposable, you really have to learn to adapt. Starting internet rings where the only thing people do is bitch - is really a dumb idea. Thanks for the traffic though....the extra impressions have earned me a few more nickles today on AdSense.

Cheers.

"Mirror of the Soul"

Check out "Mirror of the Soul" which is a blogger by a guy who thinks he is James Bond 007. He talks about how women "blew it" with feminism and their progressive attitudes, but then he goes on obsessively about how he can live without them.

He talks about how he runs several major corporations and lives simultaneously in three different countries. Amazing! I thought I was doing alright just working and making six figures. This guy is a god! Of course this guy is a single nerd with few friends and little to do in life except talk about how wonderful he is. Usually these types of guys are the ones who have no significant intimacy in their lives beyond the special closeness they have with their mothers. I bet he's an only child as well.

See this blog and witness the reason why feminism and other assorted stupid leftist ideas are so popular. Jerks like this guy keep the myth of male stupidity alive.

Maria

Maria was a recent adventure for me. Very sexual and too much a party-girl, she completely validated everything I feel about modern women. She reminded me of too many other women. They are very dismissive, talk easily about past lovers, say they are going to be independent whether they marry or not...

Of course, I have a very nice car and she DID notice that. Of course, her old boyfriend is still "kinda sorta" in the picture - as is always true of lots of women - and I could never take his place. Not that I wanted to take his place, just use his girlfriend for a short time.

Again, and as usual, I wanted to play with her mind. I mentioned that I was in the market for a condo in downtown Austin - one that overlooked the river and some of the more interesting buildings. Suddenly, I was getting calls and emails right and left.

Did someone smell success? Did her eggs start jumping up and down? Yes they did. That's why I decided not to see her anymore. It really takes a very stupid woman to reveal how shallow and greedy she is - before marriage. After marriage, all women are ONLY concerned with money. A woman will leave a 20 year marriage if she feels her husband cannot provide for her.

It was fun with Maria, but she's just another ho... time to move on.

The Journey Into Manhood by Doald Yates

It would seem that a boy has no direction; after all, where is the handbook. Perhaps someone would step up who is willing or equipped to offer advise of what to expect. There are so many don’t do that, or smarten ups that it’s no surprise boys stay in a state of constant confusion, even unto adulthood. The boys take their browbeating and crawl away like licked cures; trembling at the mere idea of engaging the brain. They get into trouble trying this and that because their adventurous hearts are in search of what is passable not permissible. Boys don’t be disillusioned; advice is on its way!

When advice comes it is usually as intelligent as a grumbling toad on a rock like, “carry on boy, your legacy is waiting.” What the Heck?? What a freighting thing to look forward to. Legacy is waiting? Who the heck made up that load of bull? Perhaps dear old dad’s, no disrespect intended, legacy is not so great. And dear old Great Grandpa was a horse theft. Possibly one could, after all, strive to be an astronaut or president or something of the highest caliber, or even, what the heck . . . a beach bum. How about “work hard and everything will be all right”, you know, “fruit of your labor” and all that baloney. Hay, I know a lot of guys that worked hard and ended up as poor as a church mouse. Besides, who is qualified to advise a boy anyway? Boys are notoriously . . inadvisable, they just can’t seem to get it through their thick heads.

After all, one can be assured, there is no guidebook, instruction manual or road signs forthcoming. Take a wrong turn and you end up with one foot in the ditch and the other slipping on a banana peel. Hitch your dreams to an out-of-touch, druggy, speeding, foul-mouthed, advice-giving icon that has streamed his way in from the TV, and go to it. After-all icons are known for prudence, right? Sure they are, like a bear wouldn’t poop in the woods either. The thing is, no one said, “if you don’t draw a road map you’ll get lost,” and boy did I get lost. What the heck at least I was not alone in my disillusionment. I joined the ranks of the lost, and strode into the future like a bumbling idiot.

Like a possum stupidity lumbers onto the highway and becomes road kill, I too stumbled into the bright lights of oncoming disaster. I was so blinded by the glitter I became paralyzed and my brain became numb, there was no getting past it, I too became road kill. That’s right kill, dead, no longer alive, a shadow of a man. Shoot, I not only didn’t know what lay ahead for me; I couldn’t even sort out the reality of it, if I had I would have coward down in panic or turned and ran like a jackrabbit. I certainly would have made no sense out of it, because there is no sense in it. Life is the road and tribulation is its eighteen-wheeler. Take note, the hesitant gets flattened like a pancake while the strong lumbers on without reservation.

I will admit that a lot of what Yates says here is valid, but aren't things worse for boys now than ever? What the hell is manhood as defined by pop culture? Is it being a wage slave for life? Is it being a complete fool for a woman who can destroy you in divorce court?