The Single Guy Who Thinks He has it Figured Out

There are some bloggers on the internet who never married or have never had a meaningful relationship. Sometimes you'll hear them talk "Oh, yeah, well I'm 35 now and I haven't had sex since I was 28."

Of course they go on and on about how they are so much better off than us ordinary mortals who have sex whenever we feel like it. There is nothing to be proud of by staying celibate. You can have a lot of fun with girls, but you don't need to marry them. Remember, all women sleep around these days - there are very few exceptions. What you need to do is remember that the secret is not to be the one holding the bag when the game ends.

I know several guys who married girls who were lifelong sluts. What is their situation now? They are stuck in marriages to fat bitches who have stopped having sex. You see, if you meet a girl who fucks energetically and fucks a lot of guys, you have to realize that this is what she does.

She doesn't give herself to one man. She isn't waiting for one man to settle down with. She is out there to ride dicks and have a good time. You may get attached to a girl who is a slut. I've had regrets about leaving slutty sex partners because they were so much fun, but you MUST move on. You cannot continue to try and turn her into something she is not.

I know it's not pleasant to hear, but you have to face reality. Some girls are sluts, some are only out to get a guy so she doesn't have to work. Very few girls want to be wives and life partners. Many of them want you to believe they want a life partner, but you will usually end up married to a girl who cheats, eats too much, or simply uses you for your income.

Don't be a "single god" who smokes cigars and pretends to run multinational corporations in several countries. The saddest thing on the Internet these days is a guy who does a blog called Mirror Of the Soul. 99% of it is nonsense. He writes about places he's never been and talks about how he causally uses women. He is the laugh-riot of the MRA community. Some of the writing is good, but the ideas are taken from other sources. What a clown.

Don't be a clown. Enjoy women for who and what they are. Don't think you have to be a celibate fool talking trash about all women and most men. You'll end up alone and miserable; no friends or family and no action from women.

The Man Shortage

Brilliant Piece Here

The Man Shortage grows worse and worse every day. It's too bad men suck so much! Ha!

Women, Motorcycles and Insanity

Who could write this crap? Is this the way it is supposed to be?

I'm continually floored by the women I meet. Many of them - I'd say about 60% - are actually living the Sex & The City experience. More women are sleeping around with married men; more are simply getting tired of waiting for a baby and just get pregnant as quickly as they can by the first guy who will do them.

Try a dating service. Do it for the educational experience. The women are old divorcees with lots of sex partners or they are younger with 1-3 kids and not much money. Most of them are looking for a bad boy. Many of them are searching for trouble. In fact, on Match.com, the #1 search term for women seeking men is "motorcycle". These sad old tarts are looking for a romantic, wild, adventurous guy. Good luck with that.

I'm 40 and I've found that when I mess around with women ages 27 to 35 or 36, I can get an erection easily and have very satisfying sex. When I date women over 40, it doesn't matter whether she is attractive or not, I have a much more difficult time getting aroused. It helps to be drunk.

What are women looking for? The truth is that they don't know. They thrive on burning emotional energy and engaging others in that process. The aren't logical and don't do well with independence.

What are you going to do, eh? Just don't every marry one.

Single Woman, Lives Alone

I've met more and more women who own their own homes. Good for them, right? Of course, it's a good thing when women have their own jobs, their own homes and a good circle of friends. But why is it good for us?

It's very good for us because she is lonely. Very often she has no children and has devoted all of her younger years to working a soul-destroying career. Oh yes, she has lots of nice things and so many activities to keep herself happy. She's a modern girl living in a material world. What could she want from a man?

Well, she does like to get a good rodgering now and then. She needs sex -in fact much more sex as she ages. That's where you come in. The single homeowning woman in an upscale area is one of the best prospects for a long-term or short-term sexual relationships. I've dated about 15 different women who fit this perspective and they are fantastic for sex and a short-term fling. You see, they really love their lives, so you aren't going to marry her and move in, but she is hurting inside for love, romance and sex. Women need it more than they think.

Your job is to find these women, go out for Tex-Mex and make sure they have a couple of tequila drinks. Then back to her place for really hot sex. If she allows you into her bed, make it a spectacular night. Let her know who "daddy" is. When you grow tired of her, move on to a new woman. Remember, the largest demographic of new home buyers is couples followed closely by single women. That means there are a lot of emotionally starving women who need to be serviced.

My Business

I'm in the fitness business these days, and let me tell you, the women are easier after establishing a "personal trainer" relationship than they are after drinking tequila slammers.

Very often I'm helping a woman workout with weights or helping her adjust to a yoga pose, and she'll turn around and say "my husband never touches me as gently as you do", or "you make me feel so special".

Of course I do, you dumbass! I'm here to get $100 from you for a one-hour workout session. Are you insane? Don't fuck the help, you are married to have sex.

Sheesh! Well, not that I am completely averse to the attention. I love it when women are coming on to me. It's nice to know that a little close contact in a workout situation can get a woman wet from only my touch. I've only taken advantage of one woman so far. She was a little stubby Jewish thing with really great tits. Things were great with her until she suddenly stopped paying for the workout sessions. I guess she thought the sex made up for it. Not hardly.

Anyway, I'll post more on my personal experiences through my biz as time goes by.

The Inferno has a good point

http://ulrich-inferno.blogspot.com/

This blogger has a very good point in his latest post. It seems that for now, the war against stupidity in male/female relationships is being won by the women. In other words, feminism is still reigning supreme.

The old bloggers are fading out. Rafael is gone, Captain Zarmband has quit. Duncan Idaho is off to a new country with no news. It seems the more observant guys are off to live life the MGTOW direction. Not that I can blame them, but this is an interesting time to watch the world change. Lots of men do "get it" and know that things are hopelessly knackered between the sexes. I cannot imagine marrying in this time, but there are ways to live a very happy life without a woman as a constant companion.

Interestingly enough, women have an interesting take on the withdrawal of men from traditional society. Just as men left the civics clubs and churches, they are now withdrawing from anything that is dominated by women. Historically, this happened in the old Soviet Union and that culture almost died off completely. If you let women run the show, it will be run on emotion, safety and conformity. Most men will emotionally and spiritually starve to death. Physically, one has to use women now and then for sanity reasons, but for none other. How are the women reacting? Sometimes with anger, sometimes with pity.

Men are losers now. You see, now that men have moved out of organizations which don't value them, women are saying that men are slacking off. Men aren't motivated. Men are losers.

I guess women had to have some sort of reaction when men started turning away. Perhaps it is time to stop noticing the problem - and simply ignore women. It's a thought, I suppose.

Foreign Women?

Lots of guys in the MRA and MGTOW movements have remarked that foreign women are far superior to the women in the West. This is true to a large degree. However, you have to remember that our culture is the poison that turns women into golddigging hose-beasts.

You marry a girl in Thailand and bring her back here; you will have maybe two years of a very good marriage. Then she will really master American English and start to relate to the daytime talk shows and other nonsense. She will get all of her advice about men from Dr. Phil and Ellen Degeneres.

Oprah will tell her that she is a goddess and religious and cultural leaders will persistently bash men. None of this bullshit exists in her native culture. When she gets to America and has her mind poisoned, she will be just like any other American skank. She's think it's great fun to have loads of sex with different guys. She will think marriage means no more sex. She won't do anything around the house; no cooking, no cleaning.

I've seen it happen before. I know a guy who brought a lovely Russian girl to his home in Colorado. She turned from a charming religious girl into a monster in about six months. Television, pop culture and other American women destroyed what she was.

Just be careful and remember the best policy to use with women: Use & discard.

Heather Mills

Abused? No. Of course not.

Heather Mills is the poster child for false abuse allegations. Her marriage to Paul McCartney was a complete con. She married him to get access to his money. When they divorced, suddenly, he was an abusive monster. Sounds like a lot of horseshit to me. I'm convinced Heather used her marriage as a business move. She allied herself to a rich man using a contract that heavily favors women when it is breached. You might have heard about this demonic contract; it's called marriage.

Now, she is making the rounds of US talk shows and nobody is questioning her lies about Paul McCartney. If you have any kind of substantial assets, let this be a lesson to you. If you are a rich man, you are very likely to be seen as a wallet to be looted, nothing more.

Taking Opportunities

Today, women expect to work and not have someone look after them. You will have to remember this in your dating/hookup life. There are still a lot of women who are looking for Prince Charming to pay all the bills and let them stay home.

The bad part about being a Captain Save-a-Ho is that you will enjoy it at first, but being 100% responsible for another person is a BAD thing. She will quickly realize that having a child will keep her at home where she can watch television all day and eat pretty much all day as well. You don't want that.

Now, getting back to working women. I did have a scam that worked really well with women for a while. During the times I was growing and selling marijuana a few years back, I would often take jobs house-sitting for people when they went out of town. It was easy work and I would set up shop and work online at their homes. Usually the homes were the $300,000 to million dollar types. I'd have delicatessens deliver food, packages dropped off, etc.

One day in Vista, California, I had some motorcycle gear shipped to a house I was staying in. It was a nice place and the FedEx girl was a really attractive and athletic blonde. I was the last stop on her route for the day. We talked, she liked "my" house and I got her to come back that evening for dinner.

Before she came back, I hid all the stuff that would easily give the place away as someone elses. All the magazines disappeared - all the new mail. I stashed those and had some wine open and an old romantic movie on when she arrived. I told her owning such a nice home was fantastic but lonely. She was so sympathetic, but I also knew she was a golddigger. We fucked all night. It was so romantic. I was everything she wanted in a man; easy-going, friendly and up for paying for everything. She was everything I wanted; beautiful, ready to fuck me all night and just a really sweet girl. It was an added plus that she was very clean with perfect teeth.

If I hadn't had my new Arai helmet dropped off at that house, I never would have slept with her. I think her name was Allison, but I did get really trashed that night. I remember she had really great tits, and a little tattoo of a butterfly right below her bellybutton. I saw her only one more time, we went to a movie theatre and started making out; then back to her place for about a half hour of sex. I had already finished my housesitting by that point, so I told her I'd call her and just moved on.

You have to take these opportunities when they come up. No woman really wants to be tied to one man. They really just want someone to pay their bills. Remember, its' all about having your money; controlling the way it is spent and keeping you under control. You aren't there for sex after it becomes an official "relationship", you are simply there to pay bills and fix things around the house.

Women: Use, then discard.

Always Wear a Condom

Unless you are absolutely certain the girl is sterile and clean of diseases. Why do this? Heres' a horror story:

Jim is a corporate wage slave in middle America. He works his ass off for a department of women managers that always try and take credit for his work. He is married to a woman who decided she hated sex immediately after marriage, so he is frustrated and unhappy.

Jim meets Debbie, a very sweet girl about his age, but somewhat depressed. They work together on a project and find themselves at her place one day to pick up a file. One thing leads to another and they have sex all afternoon - without a condom. They don't use a condom because Debbie swears to God and her mother's grave that she is on the pill and cannot get pregnant.

Nine months later, Dylan is born. Jim is now divorced and paying child support for his child from his first marriage and for young Dylan. He loves his children, but hates the women in his life. He found out Debbie didn't care anything for him, just wanted to trap some poor fool into giving her a child.

This is why you wear a condom. If you aren't having anally receptive sex with IV drug users, you don't really need to worry about AIDS. You do have to worry about herpes and other nasty bugs, but the nastiest bug of all is 18 years of child support payments backed up by the force of the law.

Wear a condom. Wear a condom. Always, always, always wear a condom. Never have kids in the West. It is too damned expensive and you'll most likely end up divorced and separated from your kids.

Elise

Just this summer I was dating a Real Estate agent named Elise. She was very average; beautiful face, but not a Miss Universe or anything. We got drunk on our first date; Spanish food and Chianti. We went back to my place and continued drinking wine. We watched a DVD of the movie Serenity and started making out on the sofa. Before we were half into the movie, we were back in the bedroom going at it. The next few weeks were incredible fun. We went out, drank and messed around. Once I met her at her office and she asked me to put my fingers inside of her right there at work. Crazy, right?

So, after we'd been the hot new couple in town for a few weeks, she tells me she is going away for the weekend to ride horses with friends. Well, I knew a coworker of hers from a long time ago. After she left on her trip, I called him and asked what was up. Apparently, there were no horses on this trip. She was going to have a weekend away with her ex-boyfriend CJ. I didn't call her or make any plans.

When she got back, I asked her to do favor after favor for me. She took my dog to the vet for me - and paid for his shots; she bought me some shirts at JCrew and even brought me lunch at work. After about two weeks of this, she got a little testy with me and called me up. She said we didn't have any time together and she didn't want to run errands for me anymore. Most importantly, she was interested in having sex again.

"But I can't do that." I said. Without missing a beat, she says "why not?"

I told her I knew she had sneaked away to sleep with CJ so I wasn't about to sleep with her again. She was humiliated. A woman getting caught screwing around is the most scared creature in the world. We pretty much broke up at that point, but she tried over and over to get back with me, saying the whole thing with CJ was a big mistake.

You can't trust women these days. Just enjoy them if you know they are safe, but always watch out for signs of cheating and be aware that women love to screw around with married men. They consider it a "safe" relationship with no strings attached. Married men know this and screw around constantly.

Remember, when it comes to women: Use, then discard.

Observations

I've found if you live in a town with an abundance of women, they will all flock to the bad boy types. In a general population, about 35% of the single guys are banging just about all the single women. I know this sounds insane, but it is true.

Don't forget that all women (with very few exceptions) are hypergamous; which means they are only interested in bedding men that are superior to them. This means: he has more money than she does. If you can create an image of wealth or easy money, you can score very easily with women.

The men who learn this early on are very successful screwing around. Of course confidence goes a long way, but money is the main motivator for women. A new shirt and a nice car will take you most of the way. Your confidence and bullshitting skills will close the deal. Sweeten the whole process with a little alcohol and you are guaranteed to score.

Now, I'd always known women were generally attracted to wealth. When I was married and the dot-com boom was going on, I was making money and getting great sex at home and with random girls when I was on the road. It was great, but mostly just recreational. Eventually, you want something more. Unfortunately, my ex was more of the psycho hose-beast type so life with her was just physical release, not much more.

I started craving a more emotional relationship. I wanted to fall in love with women, have unbelievable sex, then back away when the freshness of the experience started to fade. This is what I found:

If you can keep a long conversation going with a few women on the internet at the same time, you can slowly convince them that you care about them as a person. You can slowly introduce flirtations and sweet compliments - playing her heart like a harp; beautiful things but respectfully keeping distance.

Over time, this causes a woman to fall in love with you very deeply. When you finally meet, and then decide to have sex, it is so powerful that it is like sex times ten. It is an amazing emotional and physical connection. Now I know some of you are saying things like "Wait a minute! That's real love! You shouldn't play with people like that!"

To an extent, that is a correct sentiment, however, men have to realize that women aren't interested in a man after a certain point. After 2-3 years in a relationship, women get just as bored as men. They fall out of love with most men they are linked with. Of course, there are exceptions; I once dated a girl who was completely head over heels in love with her ex-boyfriends who had dumped her 4 years before I met her. Four years! She still wistfully spoke of him as though he was the greatest man who ever graced the planet with his feet.

So, sometimes love (or psychosis) lasts a long time, but most of the time it only goes a few years. That is why the divorce rate is so high.

Gotta run. More observations later.

Your Online Guide to Dealing with Women

I'm 40 years old, a confirmed bachelor who has had most of the typical experiences men have with women. I enjoy women, I think the body design was brilliant (kudos to God), but I think the brains of women are so overcharged with emotion that they cannot function without strict moral and social codes to keep them in check.

Unfortunately, we live in a time when there are few checks on women and they are out of control. Women are much more promiscuous, much more masculine, much more infected with social diseases and downright difficult to enjoy.

Many people have claimed that women were always the way they are today. Bullshit! If that were true, most women through history would have spent most of their lives whoring around, then finding a chump to marry at age 39 so they could whelp one "designer" child before getting absurdly fat.

No, women these days are creatures of a new social model; one that works quite well for single men but not too well for women. I'll be expanding on these themes throughout this blog as well as giving practical advice for dealing with women and enjoying them physically with the least difficulty and expense possible.

Cheers,

The Master