Final Post

Things have changed dramatically for me in recent days. I cannot go on posting. 

Best wishes to all my readers and thanks for the support. 

Reality

I had a long talk with a friend tonight. He is in Florida and I'm a few states away.  Again, he's broken hearted as his current girlfriend won't accept his marriage proposal.  

She's had six "serious" relationships which all included sex and love and living together. In short, she isn't fit for love and marriage.  She is what most of us realize is a short-term whore. Most single women over 25 are exactly this; they want to have lots of sexual experience and worship the low-life guys.  Of course, they are always on the lookout for the "save for later" guys; you know, the ones who are faithful and decent, and most of all earn a decent salary.

Don't be the last sex partner in a very long line.  Think of it this way; would you propose to a woman who had just fucked an entire football team?  That's about the amount of sexual experience most single women have had.  Unless you meet a woman from a very traditional society or religious group, they are pretty much used up prostitutes by age 30.  It's sad, but that's the way it is in Western society. 

President Barack Hussein

A "buraq" or "barack" is the mythical beast rode by Muhammad to meet with Allah.  Islamic scholars used to brag that a Muslim flag would fly over America by 2010.  I guess it got here early.

Obama is very bad for America. For all the abuse Republicans take, Obama is far, far worse. 

The old America of compromise, debate, and sanity is over.  It's now a very bad thing to be a Republican at any level.  My advice?  Don't advertise the fact that you care about American productivity, a healthy economy and national pride.  Simply say you like Obama and move on. 

It's going to be weird for a number of years.

Her Friends will Always Help

When you are with a woman, being the boyfriend for a while and having sex, you will catch the attention of her friends very quickly.  The single friends will not want you around. The married friends will be happy for you. 

The single friends will envy your girlfriend and try and take her man away. If they cannot do that, they will look for negatives in the new boyfriend until they cause problems. 

Generally, since I'm only looking for short-term girlfriends, I pay close attention to the friends. With this girl I'm about to break up with, one of her friends is very negative about single men, the other is desperately trying to find things about me that she doesn't like. Eventually, I will have to make a stand and confront this issue with her friends. She won't confront them, so I'll have to break off the relationship. 

She gets her friends back; and they are all single again, so they are all Best Friends Forever yet again while they wait for some perfect guy to come along.  Of course, they'll go back to screwing every guy they meet for a while, but I don't care. I'm long gone by then. 

Women's friends will do anything to help destroy their friends relationships. It creates possibilities for them, while keeping all the girls single; so they will be able to share the same experiences. 

Join Match.com!!

One thing you probably already know is that Match.com is for guys looking for relatively safe sluts. I've gone out on one-time dates with women who have been on Match.com for months and months. They've fucked guys here and there, told me they've learned a lot and had some fun, and now they are looking for a good guy.

Stop.  Rewind.  Let's back this bitch up.

Any woman who fucked around on Match.com is NOT fit for a relationship. It is player central.  It is for guys who use women for sex and then dump them. If you are into this, go for it. The girls love being used and dumped. If you want a halfway-decent woman, avoid the Match.com women completely.  

Again, be very careful and wear condoms if you date women from Match.com. I've heard some horror stories recently, you don't want to be careless with these women. 

Romantic and Silly Women

I got a lot of feedback on the last post, most of it from women and all of it saying the same things. Many women tell me that they were "forced" into being promiscuous because of peer pressure. "There is tremendous peer pressure to sleep around", they say. It starts in the last year of high school and is very powerful in college.  Many women don't want to be sluts, but they find they have one sex partner after another, after another, after another...

Then something interesting happens. They find a guy they really bond with for some reason. They might really like his face, or some other body part, or general manner, or money, or family, etc. This one special Mr. Wonderful type guy really rings their bells and they feel this is a a soul mate. 

Of course, it rarely works out and they have this lost love in their past. No guy can ever measure up to that one special guy - who is usually very ordinary, but they have fixated for some reason.

I've dated lots of these women, and they always sleep with me in the first three weeks. They want so desperately to be loved, so it's a mix of emotions when they find themselves becoming attached to me while still yearning for their Mr. Wonderful.  This is where the tragic reality comes in; they want to be loved, but they feel honor-bound and emotionally locked into the Mr. Wonderful from the past. It doesn't matter if he is dead, married, drunk, gay, whatever. 

The Time of Confusion is what I call it. They still really love Mike, Greg, Paul, Rick, or whoever, but they are starting to get involved with the new guy. This is the time to break up.  I've broken up with at least five women at this stage. It hurts them, but it preserves their dignity and honor. They still have the last man; it doesn't matter if they lose a really good man or someone who really loves them, they still have Mr. Wonderful.

It's interesting to realize what this does. It gives you a legitimate out while giving her all the respect in the world. She wants to be with you, but she could NEVER give up the wonderful memories and possible reconnection to the special perfect someone. 

To give you an example, I've been in a great relationship with a woman who simply adores me. The sex is great - she can't have children, so no protection and she cooks for me and gives me massages, etc.  I couldn't be happier. Still, there are many women like this that want to be with me, so I don't place too high of a value on it.  She is starting to really fall for me, but there is a boyfriend on the back burner; a guy she almost married and simply adores.  Even though nobody thinks they will get back together, I always plant small seeds of possibility in her mind. On night we were walking and I asked if she would ever marry me. She said "Well, you know, marriage is the leading cause of divorce."  I paused and said, "It's funny, we are so happy together but you'd never marry me.  Mark treated you like dog shit and you were engaged and about to get married last year."  She paused and we moved on to other topics. 

I very softly reminded her of the depth of commitment she had with Mark, despite it being an unhappy relationship.  At the same time, I confirmed that she would never commit to me.  Here and there she mentions him and I let her talk.  When I break things off - in about two weeks, she will be very upset, but she knows that Mark is available.  Despite the abuse and the pain, they were engaged, and he is still on her mind.  I've had my fun; I enjoyed her - emotionally and physically, and now it's time to give her back to Mark. He will be so happy to have her back that he'll behave for a while before he starts emotionally ripping her apart.  She'll be back where she is comfortable.

And the cycle repeats.  I move on to the next one, stay through the Time of Confusion, then move on.  You have to do this gently and plan ahead.  In one relationship a few years ago, I stayed through the Time of Confusion and the girl got really, really, really hurt; BUT, she did admit she was still hung up on her previous boyfriend.  Stay, have fun, enjoy; when they start to fall for you, remind them very deftly of the love they once had. Let them talk their hearts out about these wonderful guys who care nothing for them.  Then move on.  They'll remember you in a positive light, and the possibility of being with their true love is still alive.  Everyone wins.

The Happy Guys

I went to a dinner party last night and heard a lot of interesting conversation.  One of the women at the table had found a new boyfriend she really liked.  The other women jumped in and went on and on about how this woman had been a real "ho" in the year before she met the boyfriend.  Lots of making out with strange guys in cars; four sexual relationships, etc.  

You could see the new boyfriend's face change ever so slightly. No guy likes hearing that his love interest is a whore, but he seemed to hide it very well.  On the way home, I realized I had heard this before.  Lots of single women are having a wonderful time screwing random men and the guys are happy with the result. They promise a long-term relationship, fuck the women for a few weeks, then move on to the next girl.  The women who are used like this come to enjoy the experience. They simply love the "falling in love and hot sex" part of the relationship. If the guy disappears, they move on to the next guy.

But what about that guy at the dinner party who seemed like an ordinary decent guy?  He probably thought his girlfriend was serious about him.  Watching the change in him after the girls talked about her sordid past was revealing. 

There are no good guys left because the good guys are either locked in sexless marriages, waiting long stretches between sexual encounters as singles, or they find themselves in relationships with trashy women who have hidden their past.  None of these are desirable situations. 

Women could fix this tomorrow by keeping their legs closed unless a long-term relationships is involved.  Will that happen?  Hardly.  The only alternative is for men to use women as free whores and move on before things get too serious.  You can be happy, or the women can be happy. There's no way for both parties to be happy these days. You may as well look out for yourself. 

Our New President?

Barack Obama seems to be on his way to a historic landslide victory over John McCain. This is very bad news for the markets, for real estate values, for tax reasons, for social reasons, etc.  

But who would support this man?  An unreconstructed liberal socialist with no interest in free enterprise or capitalism?  There are a lot of people who need to feel someone is taking care of them. Most of these people are women and effeminate men.  

There are two political parties in America, the Daddy (GOP) Party and the Mommy (Dems) Party. Obama is a Mommy candidate in the Mommy party.  McCain is also a Mommy type, wanting government to solve problems, but he's an old grouch - part of the Daddy party. America didn't buy into feminism and equality for thirty years just to abandon it after 9/11.  No, there is a very real 55% of the electorate that wants security and care instead of opportunity. There are many who want to be ruled by university professors instead of business leaders.  It's now all Democrats all the time.  It will be this way for many years. 

When you destroy the American family, men become useless. Women become directionless and unhappy. Eventually, the comfort of an all-controlling government becomes very attractive, and people flock to leftist candidates. Women feel safe with councils, committees, agencies that police lives, policies that control any behavior. 

The fun, opportunity, good times of America are coming to an end. The racial hucksters and radical feminists are about to take over; and this isn't a temporary thing!  All three branches of our government are basically going to become arms of left-wing special interest groups. 

America is taking a disastrous turn it may not recover from.

Fewer Western Women having Babies

Current News Item

I find it interesting that many more people are staying single.  The idea that life should be work and drunken sex with strangers on the weekend has really taken hold. So much so that there is a movement for young women to get themselves sterilized. The story has come up in US and UK newspapers and women's magazines repeatedly. 

Why not have your tubes tied? Why have children? They are such an inconvenience.

Meanwhile, in reality...

The number of little Muhammads and Kadijas is growing exponentially. More and more mosques are popping up everywhere as Western women turn against their own men, betray our traditions, and feel equality is the doorway to hedonism and irresponsibility.  Bravo madame!

Over for the West?

There is a cultural perspective in the Western world that frowns on families and children. This seems absurd to say, but there are a great many more single in the West who are not married; have never been married - and have no interest in having children. 

I run a small organization in which only two of us are parents. The other 24 employees are childless; some are married, most are single and bouncing from one "relationship" to the next. When the topic of children comes up, as in; Are you planning on having any children?  The answer is invariably Oh, God no!

So many feel they are independent, progressive, better-educated, etc. Of course one would be a complete idiot to commit to a relationship and have children. I'm too selfish, they say. One in particular, a very attractive woman of about 35 talks at length about her oh-so-traditional parents who have a very happy marriage.  One can see the contempt and sarcasm she directs toward them. Is it really such a horrible thing to be happy?

I think it's already been said that too many Western women have given up. They aren't taught to be wives or companions, but rather Sex & The City trash. By age 35, most have had affairs with married men, had multiple sex partners, experimented with lesbianism, etc.  Even in their 40s and 50s, they are still focused on luxury living and seeking out the next thrill. Marriage isn't worth the effort because all men are pigs; all men are the same, so if all men are pigs, you better become one if you expect to have sex in your lifetime. 

No society on earth can continue with so many people living solitary and decadent lives. Of course, the end comes much more quickly when a population simply doesn't care - and virtue is the highest vice.  It's a shame really.

Why She Loves a Jackass

I've dated three women recently who were hopelessly hung up on their exes. They couldn't see having the same intimacy with someone different. Usually, the Jackass serves a very important purpose. Example:

Sandy loved her ex-boyfriend Mike. They had been together about eight years. He regularly cheated on her and emotionally abused her so badly that she spent at least three nights a week crying her heart out. This created a powerful (yet dysfunctional) bond between her and Mike.  In addition, Sandy formed a much closer bond with her friend Carla.  When she finally stopped dating Mike, she assumed all men were bad and continued dating bad men. After two years of being used and abused, she finally allowed herself to date a good and decent man. She was happier and felt loved and content, but the fear and anger (things she came to enjoy over the years) was missing. Also, her friendship with Carla had taken a big hit. 

Sandy had become addicted to the abusive and unhappy relationship, and also to the constant comfort of her friend.  When a decent man came along, there was no drama and no pain, so not only did she lose the key part of her relationship with Carla, she also lost what she most enjoyed about men.

Sandy's story is very typical, and it is part of the reason most women worship the Jackasses out there. They adore bad men, and find good men boring.  Perhaps most men are dishonest and abusive players, but an equal number of women are lifelong slaves to the worst men.  It's reality, but it doesn't make dating or marriage very easy for decent guys. 

Only Two Types

Guys, if you are wondering what women want, you don't have to wonder any more. Women like two types of men.  They don't like both types at the same time, usually preferring one type when they are young, and the second type when they are older.

The Obnoxious, Dishonest Jackass:  Women adore these men. These are the guys most men hate. They may or may not be high-status men, but they are arrogant and overly-confident. They see women only as something to ejaculate into, and care absolutely nothing for them as human beings. Women typically adore these men as "authentic" or "very masculine", and it takes them many years if not an entire lifetime to realize these aren't real men, just real assholes. Women go to elaborate lengths to claim they don't really like these guys; but of course - women are only saying "men are pigs", because they prefer the guys who treat them like shit.

The Weak, Controllable, Modern "Equality-Minded" Guy:  Women generally flock to these men once they have realized how unhappy the Obnoxious Dishonest Jackass has made them.  After having children and spending their youth on the jerks, they suddenly want a man who is kind, considerate, and loving to them.  Of course, they've already given what is best about them to the worst guys who care nothing for them.  How do they reward Mr. Nice Guy? - by controlling him!  The Weak, Controllable, Modern guy is so fucking nice that he'll do anything, put up with a complete loss of control, just for the remote chance of sex a few times a year.  

What to do?

If you enjoy relationships with women, don't commit!  Keep your relationships to the 90-day cycle. If you stop looking forward to sex, or she wants to convert you to a controllable type, it's time to leave. Remember, that most women dramatically understate the number of sex partners they've had. Most women still adore jerks, but they eventually change and want someone to control - a walking ATM, a household servant, someone to watch Lifetime Movies with. 

Even if you aren't naturally a jerk, if you want to really enjoy being with women, you have to remember NEVER to fully commit to a woman.  They'll only really love you if you are a complete shit, or a complete slave. The equality and partnership they always seem to say they want is a complete lie.  They want to dominate or be dominated.  Anything else is simply a standoff - it doesn't work in relationships between men and women. Either be absolutely in control, or be absolutely controlled.  

Still Working...

New business, new hassles. I'm back to posting very soon.

Back for a last Romp

I hooked up with my latest girlfriend again. I had the urge for tequila and animal sex, so I called her up. We went to dinner, did the deed, and while sitting back afterwards, a friend called her up (a female friend) and told her how much Mike missed her and had been talking about her.

"So, is Mike in the picture again?"

"No, he isn't." She said nervously.

"He is. I'm not attacking you. I just want to never be with you again if you are getting back with this shit."

"Well, I was with him for a very long time and always expected to be with him."

"I guess then that him stealing from you, cheating on you and treating you horribly is okay?"

"I love him."

"I know." I said and got dressed.

I took off and got back to my computer in time for a latest email from a girl named Lisa I was hooking up with about a year and a half ago. It made me realize: most women settle for - and love complete jerks. They consider themselves lucky to find a nice guy, even just for a while. This makes a nice guy the perfect player. He comes, he fucks, he moves on. The jerk gets to marry the woman and take care of her. He cheats on her, hits her and humiliates her - but this is the only kind of man most women can possibly love. They cannot love a good man, but they can sure fuck his lights out.

Take the hint - never marry, just use women for sex. Very good women will find very good men, but for most of us, women ain't nothin but hos and tricks. Sad but true...

People Sometimes Ask Me....

Why is it that I don't have the stress levels of most people.

Well, I get along about 80% of the time with my business partners. The other 20% of the time, I just avoid them and get back to work.

I expect to get along with my girlfriend about 99% of the time - you know, like a traditional relationship where the woman is actively trying to please you, cooperate, and be a good helper and mate. You know, the kind of thing that NEVER happens anymore in Western society.

So, to keep stress levels low - or at least manageable in busy times, I delete girlfriends and focus on keeping business stress-free. Women will come and go, they just want attention from men; it can be abuse or neglect, love and kindness, or raw cruelty; any attention from a man will do - as long as someone is looking their way.

That is the secret, and the reason why I keep a close watch on women in my life. I don't care how hard they fall for me, I can leave within a weekend. I never let them keep things at my place, and cannot drop my life to focus on their drama. Don't let them do this to you.

Western men have forgotten how to look after themselves, so they take mountains of abuse and stress from women. The annoying part of one's life should be work, not home.

Leaving Again

I am currently living with a woman who is wealthy, but who is very much hung up on her ex-boyfriend who is a cheating, dishonest, obnoxious shit of a man.

Oh well, life goes on.

I'm packing and leaving while she is on vacation. The best news is that three of her friends wanted to sleep with me, so I'll have another wealthy woman to shack up with. It is a very good thing not to have to pay bills, or pay for groceries or rent. I'm accumulating a lot of wealth while I live off of rich women.

When in Rome, I guess. Still, there is something horribly wrong when love and romance, family and commitment are simply foolish notions. Women's empowerment and bad decisions are paramount.

I wish I didn't live in a matriarchy.

Personal Revelation

I'd debated talking about this, but I think it matters.

About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a "good girl" type who really was good. She had good values, a very good body, but she was a bit hung up on the idea of finding a husband basically on income grounds.

She was so incredibly loving. She would touch my face and wake me up by kissing my tummy. We had incredible sex every day going on for what seemed like months at a time. I loved her like I never loved another woman. The chemistry was THERE. Very few relationships in life are like this. I felt a connection that was physical, spiritual, everything. She broke things off suddenly when I didn't propose on her timetable - and agree to have a child right away.

How did I react? I immediately got into two stupid and pointless sex relationships with two Jewish girls - my main weakness.

I'm over all that stupidity now, and in a casual relationship I've described a few times on this blog. If I stay, I'll have her pay all the bills while I get my life in order and my ownership stake in the corporation grows. Eventually, I can walk away from my current fuckbuddy and make any choices I want.

Which leads me back to Cherie.

I cannot seem to emotionally detach from her and it has been a very long time since we've seen each other. I know she is still single, and I'd love to have her in my life. I'm hoping I won't make a stupid decision, but sometimes the combination of love, sex, beauty and spirituality takes over from common sense.

I guess what I'm leading to is that we don't always have control. Some women break all the rules and make life a transcendental experience. I guess this means I'm not a misogynist, but maybe one of the lucky ones who can discern whether or not a woman is trash or a rare prize. I don't know - but I will keep everyone posted on how things go.

Interesting Observation

I've noticed a lot of women love to say "men are pigs!" and curse every man as a predator or liar, or God knows what else. However, the reason women think men are pigs - is simply because they are attracted to arrogance, obnoxiousness and vulgarity. Most women love the most base nature of men.

I've had multiple sexual relationships with women who say they are tired of a bad husband or a crappy boyfriend and want to move on. I treat them with respect, have a few months of good sex and then move on. They are always bewildered by the breakup, but I always remind them: you gave everything you have to give to men who care nothing for you. What do you give to me?

The look of shock on their faces is amazing. They never thought that giving everything to crappy guys would make them have no value to good men. No guy wants to marry a slut, or have a long-term emotional connection to a woman who prefers bar trash guys.

It's a shame really. So many women give themselves so willingly to the worst of men, then wonder why their lives are empty, filled with pain and disruption and disappointment. If you choose bad people in your life, you have to accept the consequences.

It's this reality in the West that leads insightful observers to admire the Islamic system. Women shouldn't have the right to choose predators, cheaters, liars and immoral fools as partners. However, given complete freedom, they always favor the most awful men.

Women are quick to point out that "good guys always win in the end". But which "good guys" want to be with a used up slut who has given all of her love and energies to dirtbags and bar trash? I'm glad I married a virgin and had a traditional experience. Most men marry girls who fucked lots of guys in high school and college. What kind of a prize is that? What kind of confidence can one have in a slut with no morals.

It isn't a good thing to realize, but many Western women are absolute trash. It really is a tragedy. Most men aren't angels either, but women seem to be running toward destruction much more quickly these days.

Oh well, people have to accept the consequences of their choices.

Women Change Over Time?

They love the shits when they are young, and sometimes longer. I've known women in their forties still working their way through the players, losers and married cheaters. They don't understand that what they want causes them pain. Decent guys who bring them pleasure are definitely what they don't want.

Still, as they age, they want the decent guy more and more. Lots of guys write to me and ask what they should do. Should they settle for women who have banged every shithead in town and then marry her? No way! Don't go doing that! Move in with her, use her place, her stuff, eat her cooking, use her sexually, but NEVER marry her. Women have decided that the worst kind of men are the best kind, so oblige them. Let them have their assholes.

But, if you find you need one temporarily, romance one and use her. She wants this. She wants to fall in love, have a good time, and then have you break her heart to pieces. One of the reasons women love jerks is that the breakup is easy. When they are hit, cheated on, lied to, etc., they find it pretty simple to say goodbye. But when the guy is decent, loving and caring, it hurts like hell to lose him. Still, this is the experience they are looking for. I've put two different women into counseling by breaking up with them once they had fallen completely in love with me. The reason? Because we both knew they preferred the cheater, the player, the married shithead out for a quick affair. They didn't really want a decent guy and never do.

Enjoy them for a time, but move on before you get bored. If you stay too long, she'll dump you for an asshole anyway. Just try and give her what she wants; a little shabby treatment and a ruthless breakup. She'll see you as a jerk, and that's what women really want.

Desperate? Marry that Loser!

Lori Gottlieb, writing in The Atlantic, advises old burnt-out feminists to marry less-than desirable mates - if they want husbands at all.

Oh, poor thing. She couldn't find a husband, so she went to a sperm bank and got pregnant. Now she finds that a husband would be such a good thing to have. My goodness, look at those dads playing ball with their kids and being happy.

...shame he doesn't have hair.

...shame he is a little chubby.

...oh, he doesn't earn more than me.

... I don't like that amount of body hair.

... he isn't as attractive as I deserve.

... I want someone who earns at least a quarter million per year.

... He needs to be very damn good looking.

... He must be a god in bed.


Did I miss anything? The poor aging feminist who is complaining that she has no choices. They yearn for a man to lead them, love them, and help them raise children. What do they get instead? They have each other. Old bitter feminists who enjoyed Alpha males and spent their love and sexual energy simply being entertainment for random men. At least prostitutes are honest and got something for all that sleeping around. Now all these old women have is each other. Men are still horrible, stupid pigs nobody could want, but Mother Nature is no fool.

Women ache for a man, but ordinary decent men will not compromise and marry them. Feminism pays some painful dividends. Solitude, bitterness and confusion. These women have great careers, big social circles, and everything is going great in their lives. Where then are the ideal, perfect, wealthy men? Put simply, they are avoiding the career chicks and looking for traditional women - or simply staying single and having a good time.

Sounds like a good plan for men.

Where it Comes From

The Marketing of Evil by David Kupelian.

This is an interesting book which makes some solid points. Many people take all of their cues from popular culture, their values from Saturday Night Live. Women in particular are given to a herd mentality and struggle with being different from other women.

I see so many women reading Cosmopolitan or other "ladies" magazines. They believe what they see, emulate it, and then wonder why they are unhappy. They watch television and see it as reality. They read books about married women having affairs - and are convinced this is a good thing to do.

However, to belong, to be part of women's society, one has to be promiscuous, one must be cheapish; addicted to spending, wearing cosmetics, watching monumentally vapid television programming. One must be a "Cosmo-girl" to fit in. This ethic has destroyed countless women. I see so many of them late in life; the realization in their eyes that they've wasted their lives on a bunch of shit and dumb ideas.

When you give women unlimited freedom and legal authority over men, PLUS allow them to become wage slaves that exist only to buy consumer products of dubious purpose and worth, well.... you've pretty much destroyed these women. They are useless as wives, lovers, and completely foreign to motherhood. This is why many Western women reach mid-life with no children, no savings, and completely empty and used up.

It is a huge tragedy, but completely avoidable. Sad, really.

Amazing Difference

Recently, I had been reorganizing my office. Out with the whining fat chicks and in with the professional guys. Now I have three new guys working the phones and sales are UP. Instead of the incessant chatter about guys, shopping, moods, cramps, etc., now I have guys who work and earn.

I know some women are good workers, but the majority are not. The majority of women are a car crash of emotions almost every day. They get hurt so easily. They become confused so easily. I know the government might come after me, but I'm going to avoid hiring them as much as humanly possible from now on. An office full of men is far easier to manage than a henhouse full of women.

Hire women, women are pleased. Hire men, the boss is pleased and the workers are happy.

"Personals" Advice

Recently, one of the major sites - either MSN or Yahoo did a story on their singles site about how rotten shits do so much better in the dating world than do "decent guys".

We were told....

"Girls, you know the bad boys are more fun! He's good looking and confident and great in bed! He doesn't call you, doesn't care if you drop dead after he ejaculates, but he's the best the world has to offer. He'll cheat on you, give you a sexually transmitted disease, and you'll most likely spend decades of your life sexually and emotionally serving these shits who give you nothing in return."

But, the good news for "decent guys" is that you losers will eventually win in the end. After these women have been permanently emotionally and physically damaged or even ruined by the worst kind of men, these women will be done with sex and romance. That's your chance! You'll win the prize and get the love of the women you've always wanted. Of course she'll be bitter, jaded, prone to herpes outbreaks, fat, 3 kids and lots of emotional baggage, but you won't have to wait anymore. The jerks will finally be done using her and you can have her!

Isn't that great?!? Good guys do win the "prize" in the end...

*** I see this kind of bullshit in more and more "singles" venues. The women who worship assholes really don't deserve any attention from decent, shy or gentle type guys they normally avoid. Why should good guys pick up the shit women after the shit guys are done with them? I've had many women literally throw themselves at me after a lifetime worshiping shitheads. I wish them good luck and move on. There are plenty of women for a decent guy. Just remember the basics:

NEVER date a woman who has EVER been promiscuous.
NEVER date a woman who has EVER dated a married man - even non-sexually.
NEVER date a woman who is big on the "really bad boys".
NEVER date a woman who loves to share her memories of the assholes she used to date.

That leaves only a few good women out there to date, but women don't deserve nice guys or decent guys, or shy guys, or nerdy guys. They deserve the shits they are attracted to - what the mass media tells them to love.

Are You Hiring Women?

I don't. I won't hire a woman unless she is over 40.

Younger women are amazing in their similarities. It's true what they say about a "herd" mentality. The vast majority of women who come into my office asking for work are very promiscuous, very stupid, and ready for an easy job with a high paycheck.

"Why aren't my sales numbers better?"

Well, dear... you have to ask for the sale. Identify the need, present the solution and then wrap up the close. If you have the answer to their problem, sell it to them and get a payment.

"But I already said I was with our company. Don't they just give me an order?"

No, Jennie, sales work isn't easy. You have to do a lot of convincing. People won't pay for things that sound good. They pay for things they want and need.

"Forget this shit. I quit."

Don't let the door hit your fat ass on the way out.

This conversation is very typical in my office. The women are wonderful princesses, eating up jobs that men could do easily. I have five guys working the phones who are strong employees who have been with the company a long time. The rest of the chairs have been filled over and over with women who are convinced they want a big paycheck, but want none of that stuff called "work".

Of course my office demands effort and results. I don't run a government office of pencil-pushers. If I did, the law would FORCE me to hire a bunch of whiny fat bitch women who would do the absolute bare minimum or less while always looking for a reason to file a grievance against me or my office. I know government employees and they say it is now women's work. The women are forcing the men out. Vast government agencies are now about 90% women because the women only hire women and force out the men. They don't do anything except shuffle papers and vent their emotions. If the general public knew how wasteful and pointless MOST government agencies were, there would be mass hangings.

Nobody intentionally wants to hurt the feelings of women, but they don't need economy-destroying and resource-wasting jobs which serve no purpose. Why do our governments have such swollen employee lists? Because we HAVE to hire women and they don't want to work, they just want a paycheck. So every morning and every evening our freeways and roads are clogged with single women going to their pointless jobs. More and more men are in fields where they have to earn money. More and more men are doing commissioned work, dangerous work and law enforcement or military service. Women have all the cushy jobs where a big paycheck is guaranteed just for sitting around and talking about Oprah Winfrey.

Don't hire women unless they are over 40 or 45 and religious. Those women will work. Most of the others are just going to be a headache. Believe me, I've been a business owner or manager for the last 15 years. Women are a liability.

Ensure an Exit Strategy

Remember that women are very independent these days. Their hearts are yearning for love, safety and understanding, but their heads want independence. I've found the best sex partners to be the high-powered career chicks. They love having a good boyfriend - someone who is thoughtful and kind, and always ready to give them a good romp in bed. But still... they are so pathologically independent that they almost always end up blowing a good thing. They get too clingy, but still want you to keep a respectful distance. They want you to lead, but they get to make all the choices. It's impossible to please them, and they will always give you a way out.

Examples:

Ava simply adored her ex-boyfriend, though he had married and moved on years ago. She still wrote to him, emailed him, and they kept in "friendly" contact though no sex was involved. After I enjoyed her for a few months, I asked her to put some emotional distance between her and her now married ex-boyfriend. She refused, so I broke things off. She tried over and over to get us back together, but I wouldn't have it. She simply wouldn't move on from the past, so I let her live in the past. I had a very good relationship with her, but it was time to move on. She is still hurting from the experience with me, but she still has her memories of the guy who came before. It all worked out.

Lisa was a prominent real estate exec in her town and we hit it off instantly. Great sex, great fun, restaurants, concerts, etc. She was so clingy I asked for some time off. She told me she loved me and wanted to live together. She has a huge house (5400 sq feet) and tons of money, so I asked if she wanted me to move in. Even though she lived alone, she said it would be a mistake, that she valued her independence. Fine, I said and broke things off. She cried for weeks and begged me to come back. I simply asked if she would reconsider having a life with me, living together - if not in her house, in a place together. She said no, that she could never give up her independence. I told her to enjoy that independence and I left her alone.

Lynne was probably the best match I've ever had in life. We had so much fun together, but she was very attached to an ex-boyfriend who was very abusive and frequently cheated on her. She never did say goodbye to this guy and remained "friends" with him during our relationship. I told her she needed to make a decision about him, but she didn't take me seriously. Eventually I discovered that she was keeping him as an option in case I didn't work out. I told her that if she was making backup plans in our relationship, it meant she really wanted him. I've recently learned they are back together but they are having problems because she keeps talking about how good things were with me.

You see, women are independent and attracted to the guys who are the worst possible choices. That's why women always say Men are Pigs. Men aren't pigs, but the men women choose are the biggest assholes out there. They they paint all men with that same perspective and decent men aren't interested in paying for the sins of jerks. Good men walk away. That's what you should do when dealing with these enlightened and independent women.

Why Women Love Jerks

"Most people get more love than they deserve." - Bertold Brecht

When you marry, sex stops. When you commit, expectations rise. However, if you are seen as very incapable in the romantic department, women will struggle to make up the difference. This is why they will ignore perfectly good men and devote decades to men who only use them for sex and comfort. Women don't want a man who loves them. Women want a man they have to continually work for.

They cook for him. They take his car to the shop. They don't care if he cheats. They don't care if he is a slob or has horrible personal habits. If he is hard to get and hard to reform, he must be the greatest thing on earth.

Sadly, most women spend most of their lives on guys who aren't worth shit. That gives most other guys license to treat women any way they please. Why be devoted, or loving, or kind, or exclusive or decent - when those are the last traits women seek in a man?

Never Forget What Women Prefer

I've met a lot of women in the dating world who simply aren't honest about what they prefer. I decided to do an informal research study. Here are the results:

1. Donna is 80 years old. For the last forty years she has been married to her second husband who was a notorious womanizer. He stopped cheating on her around age 60. He is awful, boorish, obnoxious and painfully annoying to be around. She loves him more than God.

2. Candy is 45. She is in an on-again, off-again relationship with a man who cheats on her at least twice a year. They always get back together and she makes endless excuses for him, but loves him unconditionally.

3. Renee is 29. She has a boyfriend who hits her and screams at her, but of course they always make up and then she gets all excited about the hot sex that happens afterward. Yeah, those bruises and police visits are really hot, aren't they? Sheesh.

Women prefer assholes, so don't disappoint them. They simply don't like decent guys and will break the hearts of dozens of good guys in order to find the one guy who will make them miserable. I've had women argue with me that only "unhealthy" women prefer the shitheads, but I've found it to be true that most women adore the creeps and take a pass on the nice guys.

It is interesting that this has it's advantages. I've always been a good-guy type, the type that women would have loved to have as a husband, say, back in 1950. I've found that I'm able to score with a lot of girls that just want a man to love them, and make them feel valuable and pretty. I go in, have a lot of fun sexually and let them treat me like a king, then I allow their Mr. Wonderful come back into their life and I leave. I get to be both the good guy and the player, and they have to go back to their jerk (which is really where they want to be).

Think I'm nuts? If you remember that women thrive on emotion, you'll realize that they need drama, pain and tears. They need the jerks and assholes. They don't want or need a good guy. But eventually, the pain is simply too much and they need the diversion of a good guy, if only to truly feel loved for a short time. That is the time to enjoy yourself and take advantage of the situation.

Mr Wonderful, yet again...

The fun thing about dating women over 30 is that there is always a Mr. Wonderful in the past. This has come up in other discussions on other boards, but it bears revisiting.

Many women attach to a certain guy in their past they simply cannot get away from. You can use this to your advantage. In my most recent relationship, I allowed this woman to continue phone contact with her ex-boyfriend until it became an issue. She then asked me if it would make me happy if she would tell him never to call again. At this point I'd already had my 90 days of "new romance - great sex". It was time to move on. I replied to her "No, I can't tell you what to do. Your interaction with him is none of my business. If you forgave him for all the stuff he did and you'll still take his phone calls, I think you still have a very strong romantic love for him."

Notice what I just did. To any guy, what I said sounds stupid beyond belief. Yet to a woman, it sounds like some profound insight. Remember that women work on feelings, on emotions. I told her that I have no business in her relationship with her ex - and that she still must have very strong love for him. I basically reframed the discussion. Instead of being "new boyfriend has hangups", I turned it into "girl still longs for ex-boyfriend even though she thought she loved new guy".

She's still working it out with her ex so I'm laying low and pretending to be extra busy with work so I haven't seen her in a few days. Her family and friends are furious with her for thinking about giving up a good guy to return to the biggest turd she ever dated.

I've done this over and over. I'm only interested in the "new romance" time when everything is easy-going and the sex is incredible. Then after the first "I love you's" are over, I artfully move them back to a focus on their ex. It doesn't take long. Most women would date Charles Manson over a decent, kind man. They are thrilled by the drama and love the constant breaking up and getting back together. I don't care for all that drama so I just check in for a few happy months, then move on. Take everything they can offer, because they would rather give it to a guy who isn't worth shit.

Of course, there is a parting gift. I've had several women tell me that breaking up with a good guy (me), was far more painful than breakups with the jerks. I even had one say "You hurt me more than you could ever imagine." - and this is after she broke things off with me to be with a jerk ex-boyfriend.

Meet, romance, get into bed quickly. Enjoy yourself, but then remind them that their Mr. Wonderful is who they should be with. Do this tactfully. When things fall apart, she is back with her crappy guy. With luck, she'll have profound regrets that she lost you. You got what you wanted, a short term romance with lots of sex. She got what she wanted, emotional drama and getting back with her ex. Everyone is happy.

My Relationship

My time with the current girlfriend has been interesting. It's been six weeks and the sex is still great, but I already feel myself compelled to look around. She is painfully sweet and a good girl but I know she could do better than me. It is the kind of relationship that people dream of - but almost never find. She's sterile - tried to have children with the ex-husband, so we get to have unprotected sex all the time. She has money, so I could be a kept man, but I'm still keeping my options open.

At least I'm obeying my own rules: I'm only in a relationship when its all to my advantage.

I continue to be amazed....

I'm dating someone right now, but not seriously - and I am keeping finances separate and not taking chances with pregnancy. In other words, I'm having the fun without the headaches.

Everything was going fine. We had messed around in bed all afternoon and were drinking wine on the sofa when "Michael" called. Michael insisted my girl come and pick him up at the airport.

"Who is this guy?" I asked.

"Just a guy who wanted to date me, but we're just friends." She explained.

"He knows you have plans with me and he's insisting you pick his sorry ass up?"

She stammered and stuttered and apologized. Apparently, this ex-frat guy who has had lots of women around him in life had not been able to force my girl into bed. It drove him crazy and he couldn't stop thinking about her. I did ask the girl why she continued having any association with a guy she really didn't like and who was frustrated because he couldn't poke her. She didn't know why, but she felt the guys who were unavailable, and yet guys she didn't want, were really desirable guys - just to have around.

Insane, right?

The 90-Day Standard

More and more men are opting for the 90 day relationship. It has a lot of advantages. You get all the fun and excitement of great sex with a new woman, you enjoy discovering someone who is going to treat you well at the outset, you get gifts and favors, etc.

Of course, after 90 days, the woman is going to start making demands. She will start pressing for a relationship, start making changes (or attempting to make changes) in the guys life, laying down ultimatums, etc.

If you are there for the first 90 days and then break it off, you will have a good time and you won't have the usual problems that come with a mature relationship.

Recommended Reading

Probably the best MRA blog out there is in operation again. I hadn't seen it in months, but I guess the lazy sod started blogging again. Eternal Bachelor.

In a Temporary Relationship

I'm dating a very successful businesswoman now - and it is a lot of fun. She is very funny and intelligent and works in the banking industry. She is three years older than I am and we seem to be a very compatible couple.

I earn a good salary and live well, but this woman is a millionaire and will be when she retires. I've never dated anyone this successful and she seems to have the inclination to want to take care of me. She is open to getting me a new car, replacing my wardrobe and buying me a motorcycle.

Ironically, all of this is happening at a time when my professional position is taking off very quickly. I'm doing very well and dating someone who is doing very well.

I think I'm going to get all I can and move on after a while. Why not? Right?