Clarity

I have successfully gotten the old relationship out of my head. It's great to be single for Christmas, but I have been meeting women who are really hurting for companionship. Of course, they are looking for someone ideal, has money, will spoil them, etc.

It took me a long time to realize that I wanted to be single for life. Women will come and go, but you are always the same, so you have to decide if you want to dedicate many years of your life to being basically a professional companion/slave to a woman.

Don't forget that although there are obvious joys to being with a woman, they are quickly outweighed by the control, nagging, lack of freedom - and her need to always be changing you. Of course, she doesn't know what she wants, so she will always be working to change you into something she thinks she wants, but doesn't really want. It can be confusing.

Stay single, don't get married.

Working a New Business - and Random other Things

Just starting working with a business partner and things are going well. I haven't had time to post regularly, but I'm going to - just to keep the discussion alive.

As some of you know, I've been having endless debates with a woman I was dating a couple of years ago. She wanted to get married immediately and have children. No thanks to that. We did have very good chemistry, but she was really kind of a nut-bar, if you know what I mean...

Anyway, she is very much a part of the literary world and has been sending messages couched in some of her opinion pieces. She even uses my name directly and talks about a certain "type" of man...of course I fit the description very well. She knows I'm going to be in her town over Christmas, but I won't be getting into contact.

You see, the worst thing about revisiting an old relationship is that it isn't a second-time around, it is simply a continuance of the same old, same old. Women feel that if you come back into their lives, you might be "the One" which is a scary thought. What scared me...temporarily...but what scared me was that I was feeling the same things as well. I really should go and drink a lot to get this woman out of my head.

Tequila, maybe.

No, definitely.

Holiday Observations

I noticed over the past Thanksgiving week that something odd has happened. Men are having their own Thanksgivings and women and children are having another.

Brothers and friends are getting together for dinner and football.

Women, sisters and mothers are getting together for dinner and talking.

More and more families are fractured and broken. Women in the West are intolerable to live with and push men away. Western men are what women used to call "ideal husband material". I wonder why women decided to be men and ruin the special dynamic. I have some nephews who have never known a holiday when men and women are together and getting along. They simply shrug and say women are "jerks" who need to accept that men should be in control. When women are in control, everyone is unhappy. This is what really young people are saying!

Oh well, I guess most people like things the way they are as the problems are getting worse.

Scary Stuff

I just had an interesting conversation with a woman I dated very briefly. We stopped dating because she wanted to marry RIGHT NOW and I simply wasn't ready. I had a lot of personal issues and professional stuff going on and marriage wasn't right at that time.

She's going through a divorce now because her husband "didn't make enough money", so she is leaving him. To make things work for her, she swore out a false complaint of domestic violence. She was overjoyed to be able to take his car away from him, along with all their furniture. She's still fighting him for the house, but he has a good attorney in the family. Still, it looks like he's going to lose everything.

What I found interesting was that she was absolutely delighted that her friends were 100% supportive of her cruel behavior, yet her mother told her she was "doing wrong" and that her soon to be ex-husband was an ordinary decent guy who didn't deserve this horrible treatment. Only the very old realize that marriage and relationships are completely screwed up these days. Most women are thrilled with how badly they can treat men - and get away with it.

Interesting Observation

An older business contact I know told me men used to be much more dismissive and even abusive toward their wives. In the "old days" he said, women were ignored or treated badly, and they loved their husbands completely.

These days men in the West are the most egalitarian and accommodating to women, yet most men are pretty unhappy.

People wonder why the marriage rates are falling...

Short Term Relationship

I guess I was looking for trouble. I met what could only be described as a complete train wreck of a woman who was very good-looking, but in need of serious psychological work. We met, we went out for lunch, and then spent the last three days having what can only be described as crazy "monkey sex". We were at it non-stop for the longest time. I'm glad it's over and I know things shouldn't have happened, but we all need some insane fun now and then.

I think the end came when she said she really liked me, but if she happened to get pregnant, she would "kill it". I just about fell over. Kill it? What? Is she insane? I know lots of women are pro-choice or pro-abortion, but she was happy with the idea of killing a child.

I simply do not understand modern women. They are fun to play with, but not grown-up enough for a relationship.

Out of Commission

Sorry about no posts this week. I've had very good conversations with a lot of you - and a few very good comments. A lot of people write in to tell me who perfect women are, but I simply delete those comments. I've been busy this week with a new job which is consuming a lot of my time. I won't bore you with the details, but the job does give me a lot of free time and is exactly what I've been looking for.

I did have an interesting observation. At my workplace, there is an older woman of about 65 who does inside sales. She's "old world" all the way, very traditional and very serious about work. She earns about $120,000 doing inside sales. She works casual, but doesn't waste time.

Then we have a younger girl who doesn't do much of anything and seems to be hot and bothered for any guy who has good sales numbers. I'm single of course and hit the #1 spot on the sales board for this week. So, what do you think happened? I got post-it notes, phone messages and constant "conference requests" from this younger woman. She wanted me to close her sales for her, buy her lunch and maybe start taking her out. She simply didn't realize that I wasn't interested in her. She is attractive, but I generally avoid the overt gold-diggers.

Anyway, just more of the same. I'm off to get things done and run errands. It will be a busy Sunday; I'll have to avoid all the breast-cancer walks and ovarian cancer concerts going on this weekend. Thank God for the NFL. At least men have some interests to keep them going through the weekends.

The Impact of Sex & The City

More and more women are "living the dream". I know a woman named Valerie from work who sleeps with married men probably twice a week. I mean she actively searches for married men who are searching for an affair. In the past, she never would have done this, but after watching several seasons of the program Sex & The City, she is actively sleeping with married men.

She is very excited about her sex life and meets strange and dangerous people, but she says her life is more fun now - and she didn't even mind catching herpes from one of these losers.

I guess I was born at the wrong time. I really prefer a more traditional society. I know this woman isn't representative of most women, but there are a lot more trashy women these days.

Simply amazing.

Blast from the Past

My goodness! I just got an email from someone who found this blog - someone I used to date. I hadn't thought about her in a very long time. She read some of my blog entries and thinks I have problems. I'm supposed to accept that women make the decisions in life now- and men need to accept reality and go along with it.

I disagree with that, obviously, but there is no talking to some women. I was raised thinking that I would get married and be the leader of my own home and family. Lots of guys were raised that way. Now, having a family and spending all the money you need to spend is getting almost impossible. I know families who are barely scraping by; the wives watch television and get excited over the rich men and their independent wives spending money like crazy. Lifetime Channel is the worst. This girl who wrote to me used to watch it. There was a movie about a software engineer who was very rich who married some waitress and made all her dreams come true.

Right. Yeah, that will happen.

Too many women think that every other woman has a rich husband and that they "missed out".

I asked this girl who emailed me if she was dating anyone.

No. Not anyone right now. She is divorced, though.

He didn't earn enough money. She has a kid, but grandma raises the kid. Great....


Don't forget, women are independent and strong. They don't need men. They are happy without men and love going to sleep alone every night - sometimes after their bar pick-up fucks them and then leaves.

I have to admit there are some women who are hopelessly traditional despite their foolish behavior. I've had three women call me up and ask to go out on a date - all in the last year. Men simply aren't after them once they get past the age of 35. They still think they look good, but something crashes in a woman's self-concept when men aren't coming onto them anymore. It's especially hard on women who slept around a bit. When the men stop hitting on them, they realize all they ever had to offer was sex, nothing else.

The smart women are the ones who look for men who will see them as special. It's really too bad women think so little of themselves that they will sleep with anyone who buys them a drink.

Slumming It

I've run into several guys who brag about having very hot sex lives and I wonder what they are talking about. Some of these guys weigh over 350 pounds or have green and yellow teeth.

I ask: "Well, where did you meet this girl?"

Guy: "At Wal-Mart. She's a cashier. She wanted to cheat on her husband since he's in jail."

Ohhhhhhhhh, Ok! Now I get it.

Listen, I know that relationships between men and women are more fucked up now than ever before, but that doesn't mean you have to go all the way to the gutter for sex. There are so many insurance agents, real estate ladies, church women, mid-level managers, etc., that you really don't need to fuck some piece of trash who works at Wal-Mart.

I know someone who took his date to a Denny's and she said it was the nicest restaurant she had ever been to. I've been to many five star restaurants and most of them aren't worth their stars, but if a girl is impressed with Denny's, she needs to get out more.

My rule is simple, if you are embarrassed to be seen with a girl, then it's best not to go out with her. Once I was in DC with this girl going up to my room at the Holiday Inn. On the second floor the elevator stopped and another woman got in. She looked me up and down, then looked at my date with a disapproving look. I realized I had been shooting too low. I really liked the girl I was with, but I could have done better if I was just looking for some fun.

Don't slum it if you don't have to.

Giving Up

I've known so many guys who simply give up. Why put up with the nonsense today? Well, it isn't like we live in a complete hell. One can have an interesting and fulfilling life without traditional structures.

Recently though, I have noticed that there are a few more members of the "Ghost Nation" than I ever expected. I'm seeing a lot of guys between 32 and 50 who have very little dealings with women. Of course, after the age of 40, women can't keep a man just because of sex. Sex simply stops being such a powerful motivation. If a lot of women are willing to have a brief affair, there is simply no reason to get tied down to one woman only.

I'm offline until Saturday. Keep the faith...

Are Men Wizing Up?

I think it is true that a lot of men are finally taking action. I have a sales staff of six guys; five white, one black - and not one of them is married or plans to marry. They all have girlfriends at one time or another. One guy is really not very decent to women and specializes in one-nighters. Still, they all know someone close to them who has been destroyed through divorce.

One of my older associates has two daughters he never sees. He lives in Texas and his children live in Pennsylvania with their mother and stepfather. He is in poor health and cannot travel, so he simply doesn't see his children very often. He doesn't keep photos of them at work and doesn't talk about them very often. You see, when you are very close to your children and they are suddenly ripped away, it is more painful than death. It really can be.

When I was young, women never considered doing such things to their men. Now, they feel they "own" the children and don't give a passing thought to picking up children and moving them halfway across the country. Think it doesn't happen very often? Think again.

I've noticed lately that women still don't get it. Many women over 35 are starting; that's starting, to realize that a lifetime of abusing men or engaging in random casual sex is really a bad thing - and not good for the mind, body or spirit. Of course, men urged women not to embrace casual sex and foolish ideas, but there were enough jerks out there to use and discard women.

Many women are finding out that they have nobody late in life. When they most need to be loved and appreciated, the guys who in past years would have made ideal husbands are getting on with life without women. They still mess around with women now and then - but purely for recreation. You see, men might enjoy banging the ho's, but they sure the hell don't want to marry one. So, if you have lots of women who spent from age 15-40 sleeping around, the odds are very good that her skanky ass will be alone for the last half of her life.

If you don't want tradition - and you want to be free and easy with lots of guys, you don't get a prince charming, you don't get a decent guy. Men are aware that women are all simply playing them now. Even the sweetest, most romantic girl can turn into a manipulating divorce machine after a few years. It's a good thing that more men are 100% against marriage. The truth about women should be taught in schools.

Funny Story

I have a good friend who just met a woman for coffee. Here's her love life:

- she married her husband because they were good friends. After 11 years of marriage,
they realized there was absolutely no sexual chemistry between them. He left that night.

- she married another man quickly; a man she really loved. He cheated on her 8 times and
each time she forgave him. Finally, he admitted he simply didn't like her and moved on.

- now she is dating and will only date men with whom she feels there is "instant" chemistry.

Good luck with that!

Sheesh, it's true what they say - a lot of women are their own worst enemy.

My Job, Money and Women

My job is an interesting mix of doing things online and dropping into a sales office now and then. I was somewhat disorganized for a while, but now I'm earning some serious money. Let me tell you when I got my new car, the attention from women was amazing.

Before I was earning a lot, I wasn't even regarded as a human being. When I dropped into the office, the girls would look disinterested or not even say hello. Once my income jumped and I started wearing my Cartier watch and driving a new car, suddenly they always smiled. I also noticed at the grocery store or just out in public - women look at me as if they are getting aroused. It doesn't happen when I'm wearing a sweat shirt and tennis shoes, but often I'm out in a nice set of clothes with a nice watch on. When they see the car I'm getting out of, the looks are always positive.

Are women this shallow? Is money the only thing that matters? I think so. A very honest woman once told me that money is 95% of the equation. Humor, looks, values - none of that matters. Money is everything.

My Favorite Coworker

I work with this woman now and then who is about my age. She is single and after a lifetime of slutty behavior, she's suddenly gotten all fussy about sex. She says she is going to hold off on sex until she is married to her ideal man. Of course, she is over 35 and not many guys are going to marry an old whore, but who knows?

Anyway, I was sending off some FedExs when I realized she and her friends were chatting in the office. I got near the door and heard them talking divorce strategy. So, this woman is planning to marry so she can get as much of her "ideal" man's money and assets as possible. Keep in mind that this is a woman who supposedly has reformed herself both personally and sexually.

Well, I find out that she has been sleeping with our local married insurance agent named TJ. Wonderful. So she's still a slut and she is still plotting to destroy a decent man and take his money.

I see this with so many women. They now see men as disposable. If this is universally true - which is what I am seeing, then it is important to keep this in mind when dating.

Always wear condoms or get yourself fixed. Don't have children with Western women as they will never be satisfied with you and will take great pleasure in separating you from your children and stealing your assets and income.

Sound like a bitter divorced man talking? No, not at all. I've seen so many women being happy predators and literally destroying men. I've known one guy personally who killed himself after a pointless divorce (because his wife was "bored").

Things are different now. Feminism isn't the problem. Women are the problem. Until they change, treat them like the opportunistic devils they very often are.

Oh, the Blogosphere!

I've taken a ton of abuse from people over the last few days...

I never said I spoke for the Mens Rights Movement or the MGTOW movement. I do think there are a few jackasses pretending to be 007 Style secret agents or heads of industries. If some guys are pretending to be millionaire playboys, I feel I have the right to call them out on it.

I have noticed something about the anti-feminism movement. It is never going to get off the ground. Too many people feel there is an "orthodoxy" to the movement and everyone who is associated with anti-feminism has to agree with the standard talking points.

Don't be confused, I don't agree with the tenets of feminism and it has done enormous damage to women and families, but it is now part of the accepted popular culture - and most people don't even realize how much of it they buy into. Let me explain...

How many people think their daughters should be ready to marry young and stay at home? Not many. People with daughters want their girls to have all the advantages and choices that modern women have.

How many people think that we should return to a less permissive society when it comes to sexual matters? Not many. I would love to meet a non-slutty girl and settle down, but I'm not about to stay celibate for life just because most women sleep around.

When we are raised in a society which is far from ideal, we have to cope and adapt. If I do enter into relationships, I make it clear that I'm not interested in a marriage - mainly because the legal deck is stacked against me. When I date religious women, I let them know that I won't forget about sex just because their values suddenly changed at age 35. "Oh, I fucked a hundred guys but now I found Jesus, so I'll never sleep with you - and if we get married, sex is only for having children!" No thanks to that.

I'm not interested in restricting people's choices, but I am interested in coping. If women want to live out the story lines in the program Sex and The City, then I say let them! If they want to get together for wine and sex and then get back to screwing married men from work, I can't change their behavior. If they want to rule society, government and our churches, I'm sure as hell not going to cooperate with that.

What's wrong with being an individual, or being part of the Ghost Nation? Our society will never return to tradition. Even the most conservative people have confused roles and sordid lives. I'm pretty conservative by comparison, but I won't refuse to enjoy life just because most people are living very wrong.

Clear? Probably not, but it's my perspective.

Thanks for the Traffic!

The folks at antimisandry.com hate this blog.

Apparently, there are a lot of folks on the Internet who feel that only a certain perspective is acceptable in the MRA movement. That's good. They need a group collective consciousness to feel that all is well with the movement.

But ask yourselves:

Do you really want a world like the pre-sexual revolution 1960s and 1970s?

Do you really want a world where mostly men work and women are focused on the family?

I'm convinced women aren't interested in the "good old days" and are happy sleeping around and enjoying high salaries which they spend at the many retail outlets on almost every corner. It's a new world with a lot of shallow people in it. My point is to enjoy life as it is. I'm not a pick up artist, but I do have about 2-3 short term girlfriends per year. I have done one-night stands, but I'm not interested in doing it regularly. I do make a decent income, but I'm not a complete liar like the guy who writes Mirror of the Soul.

If you want to be happy in a world where divorce is common and people are disposable, you really have to learn to adapt. Starting internet rings where the only thing people do is bitch - is really a dumb idea. Thanks for the traffic though....the extra impressions have earned me a few more nickles today on AdSense.

Cheers.

"Mirror of the Soul"

Check out "Mirror of the Soul" which is a blogger by a guy who thinks he is James Bond 007. He talks about how women "blew it" with feminism and their progressive attitudes, but then he goes on obsessively about how he can live without them.

He talks about how he runs several major corporations and lives simultaneously in three different countries. Amazing! I thought I was doing alright just working and making six figures. This guy is a god! Of course this guy is a single nerd with few friends and little to do in life except talk about how wonderful he is. Usually these types of guys are the ones who have no significant intimacy in their lives beyond the special closeness they have with their mothers. I bet he's an only child as well.

See this blog and witness the reason why feminism and other assorted stupid leftist ideas are so popular. Jerks like this guy keep the myth of male stupidity alive.

Maria

Maria was a recent adventure for me. Very sexual and too much a party-girl, she completely validated everything I feel about modern women. She reminded me of too many other women. They are very dismissive, talk easily about past lovers, say they are going to be independent whether they marry or not...

Of course, I have a very nice car and she DID notice that. Of course, her old boyfriend is still "kinda sorta" in the picture - as is always true of lots of women - and I could never take his place. Not that I wanted to take his place, just use his girlfriend for a short time.

Again, and as usual, I wanted to play with her mind. I mentioned that I was in the market for a condo in downtown Austin - one that overlooked the river and some of the more interesting buildings. Suddenly, I was getting calls and emails right and left.

Did someone smell success? Did her eggs start jumping up and down? Yes they did. That's why I decided not to see her anymore. It really takes a very stupid woman to reveal how shallow and greedy she is - before marriage. After marriage, all women are ONLY concerned with money. A woman will leave a 20 year marriage if she feels her husband cannot provide for her.

It was fun with Maria, but she's just another ho... time to move on.

The Journey Into Manhood by Doald Yates

It would seem that a boy has no direction; after all, where is the handbook. Perhaps someone would step up who is willing or equipped to offer advise of what to expect. There are so many don’t do that, or smarten ups that it’s no surprise boys stay in a state of constant confusion, even unto adulthood. The boys take their browbeating and crawl away like licked cures; trembling at the mere idea of engaging the brain. They get into trouble trying this and that because their adventurous hearts are in search of what is passable not permissible. Boys don’t be disillusioned; advice is on its way!

When advice comes it is usually as intelligent as a grumbling toad on a rock like, “carry on boy, your legacy is waiting.” What the Heck?? What a freighting thing to look forward to. Legacy is waiting? Who the heck made up that load of bull? Perhaps dear old dad’s, no disrespect intended, legacy is not so great. And dear old Great Grandpa was a horse theft. Possibly one could, after all, strive to be an astronaut or president or something of the highest caliber, or even, what the heck . . . a beach bum. How about “work hard and everything will be all right”, you know, “fruit of your labor” and all that baloney. Hay, I know a lot of guys that worked hard and ended up as poor as a church mouse. Besides, who is qualified to advise a boy anyway? Boys are notoriously . . inadvisable, they just can’t seem to get it through their thick heads.

After all, one can be assured, there is no guidebook, instruction manual or road signs forthcoming. Take a wrong turn and you end up with one foot in the ditch and the other slipping on a banana peel. Hitch your dreams to an out-of-touch, druggy, speeding, foul-mouthed, advice-giving icon that has streamed his way in from the TV, and go to it. After-all icons are known for prudence, right? Sure they are, like a bear wouldn’t poop in the woods either. The thing is, no one said, “if you don’t draw a road map you’ll get lost,” and boy did I get lost. What the heck at least I was not alone in my disillusionment. I joined the ranks of the lost, and strode into the future like a bumbling idiot.

Like a possum stupidity lumbers onto the highway and becomes road kill, I too stumbled into the bright lights of oncoming disaster. I was so blinded by the glitter I became paralyzed and my brain became numb, there was no getting past it, I too became road kill. That’s right kill, dead, no longer alive, a shadow of a man. Shoot, I not only didn’t know what lay ahead for me; I couldn’t even sort out the reality of it, if I had I would have coward down in panic or turned and ran like a jackrabbit. I certainly would have made no sense out of it, because there is no sense in it. Life is the road and tribulation is its eighteen-wheeler. Take note, the hesitant gets flattened like a pancake while the strong lumbers on without reservation.

I will admit that a lot of what Yates says here is valid, but aren't things worse for boys now than ever? What the hell is manhood as defined by pop culture? Is it being a wage slave for life? Is it being a complete fool for a woman who can destroy you in divorce court?

The Single Guy Who Thinks He has it Figured Out

There are some bloggers on the internet who never married or have never had a meaningful relationship. Sometimes you'll hear them talk "Oh, yeah, well I'm 35 now and I haven't had sex since I was 28."

Of course they go on and on about how they are so much better off than us ordinary mortals who have sex whenever we feel like it. There is nothing to be proud of by staying celibate. You can have a lot of fun with girls, but you don't need to marry them. Remember, all women sleep around these days - there are very few exceptions. What you need to do is remember that the secret is not to be the one holding the bag when the game ends.

I know several guys who married girls who were lifelong sluts. What is their situation now? They are stuck in marriages to fat bitches who have stopped having sex. You see, if you meet a girl who fucks energetically and fucks a lot of guys, you have to realize that this is what she does.

She doesn't give herself to one man. She isn't waiting for one man to settle down with. She is out there to ride dicks and have a good time. You may get attached to a girl who is a slut. I've had regrets about leaving slutty sex partners because they were so much fun, but you MUST move on. You cannot continue to try and turn her into something she is not.

I know it's not pleasant to hear, but you have to face reality. Some girls are sluts, some are only out to get a guy so she doesn't have to work. Very few girls want to be wives and life partners. Many of them want you to believe they want a life partner, but you will usually end up married to a girl who cheats, eats too much, or simply uses you for your income.

Don't be a "single god" who smokes cigars and pretends to run multinational corporations in several countries. The saddest thing on the Internet these days is a guy who does a blog called Mirror Of the Soul. 99% of it is nonsense. He writes about places he's never been and talks about how he causally uses women. He is the laugh-riot of the MRA community. Some of the writing is good, but the ideas are taken from other sources. What a clown.

Don't be a clown. Enjoy women for who and what they are. Don't think you have to be a celibate fool talking trash about all women and most men. You'll end up alone and miserable; no friends or family and no action from women.

The Man Shortage

Brilliant Piece Here

The Man Shortage grows worse and worse every day. It's too bad men suck so much! Ha!

Women, Motorcycles and Insanity

Who could write this crap? Is this the way it is supposed to be?

I'm continually floored by the women I meet. Many of them - I'd say about 60% - are actually living the Sex & The City experience. More women are sleeping around with married men; more are simply getting tired of waiting for a baby and just get pregnant as quickly as they can by the first guy who will do them.

Try a dating service. Do it for the educational experience. The women are old divorcees with lots of sex partners or they are younger with 1-3 kids and not much money. Most of them are looking for a bad boy. Many of them are searching for trouble. In fact, on Match.com, the #1 search term for women seeking men is "motorcycle". These sad old tarts are looking for a romantic, wild, adventurous guy. Good luck with that.

I'm 40 and I've found that when I mess around with women ages 27 to 35 or 36, I can get an erection easily and have very satisfying sex. When I date women over 40, it doesn't matter whether she is attractive or not, I have a much more difficult time getting aroused. It helps to be drunk.

What are women looking for? The truth is that they don't know. They thrive on burning emotional energy and engaging others in that process. The aren't logical and don't do well with independence.

What are you going to do, eh? Just don't every marry one.

Single Woman, Lives Alone

I've met more and more women who own their own homes. Good for them, right? Of course, it's a good thing when women have their own jobs, their own homes and a good circle of friends. But why is it good for us?

It's very good for us because she is lonely. Very often she has no children and has devoted all of her younger years to working a soul-destroying career. Oh yes, she has lots of nice things and so many activities to keep herself happy. She's a modern girl living in a material world. What could she want from a man?

Well, she does like to get a good rodgering now and then. She needs sex -in fact much more sex as she ages. That's where you come in. The single homeowning woman in an upscale area is one of the best prospects for a long-term or short-term sexual relationships. I've dated about 15 different women who fit this perspective and they are fantastic for sex and a short-term fling. You see, they really love their lives, so you aren't going to marry her and move in, but she is hurting inside for love, romance and sex. Women need it more than they think.

Your job is to find these women, go out for Tex-Mex and make sure they have a couple of tequila drinks. Then back to her place for really hot sex. If she allows you into her bed, make it a spectacular night. Let her know who "daddy" is. When you grow tired of her, move on to a new woman. Remember, the largest demographic of new home buyers is couples followed closely by single women. That means there are a lot of emotionally starving women who need to be serviced.

My Business

I'm in the fitness business these days, and let me tell you, the women are easier after establishing a "personal trainer" relationship than they are after drinking tequila slammers.

Very often I'm helping a woman workout with weights or helping her adjust to a yoga pose, and she'll turn around and say "my husband never touches me as gently as you do", or "you make me feel so special".

Of course I do, you dumbass! I'm here to get $100 from you for a one-hour workout session. Are you insane? Don't fuck the help, you are married to have sex.

Sheesh! Well, not that I am completely averse to the attention. I love it when women are coming on to me. It's nice to know that a little close contact in a workout situation can get a woman wet from only my touch. I've only taken advantage of one woman so far. She was a little stubby Jewish thing with really great tits. Things were great with her until she suddenly stopped paying for the workout sessions. I guess she thought the sex made up for it. Not hardly.

Anyway, I'll post more on my personal experiences through my biz as time goes by.

The Inferno has a good point

http://ulrich-inferno.blogspot.com/

This blogger has a very good point in his latest post. It seems that for now, the war against stupidity in male/female relationships is being won by the women. In other words, feminism is still reigning supreme.

The old bloggers are fading out. Rafael is gone, Captain Zarmband has quit. Duncan Idaho is off to a new country with no news. It seems the more observant guys are off to live life the MGTOW direction. Not that I can blame them, but this is an interesting time to watch the world change. Lots of men do "get it" and know that things are hopelessly knackered between the sexes. I cannot imagine marrying in this time, but there are ways to live a very happy life without a woman as a constant companion.

Interestingly enough, women have an interesting take on the withdrawal of men from traditional society. Just as men left the civics clubs and churches, they are now withdrawing from anything that is dominated by women. Historically, this happened in the old Soviet Union and that culture almost died off completely. If you let women run the show, it will be run on emotion, safety and conformity. Most men will emotionally and spiritually starve to death. Physically, one has to use women now and then for sanity reasons, but for none other. How are the women reacting? Sometimes with anger, sometimes with pity.

Men are losers now. You see, now that men have moved out of organizations which don't value them, women are saying that men are slacking off. Men aren't motivated. Men are losers.

I guess women had to have some sort of reaction when men started turning away. Perhaps it is time to stop noticing the problem - and simply ignore women. It's a thought, I suppose.

Foreign Women?

Lots of guys in the MRA and MGTOW movements have remarked that foreign women are far superior to the women in the West. This is true to a large degree. However, you have to remember that our culture is the poison that turns women into golddigging hose-beasts.

You marry a girl in Thailand and bring her back here; you will have maybe two years of a very good marriage. Then she will really master American English and start to relate to the daytime talk shows and other nonsense. She will get all of her advice about men from Dr. Phil and Ellen Degeneres.

Oprah will tell her that she is a goddess and religious and cultural leaders will persistently bash men. None of this bullshit exists in her native culture. When she gets to America and has her mind poisoned, she will be just like any other American skank. She's think it's great fun to have loads of sex with different guys. She will think marriage means no more sex. She won't do anything around the house; no cooking, no cleaning.

I've seen it happen before. I know a guy who brought a lovely Russian girl to his home in Colorado. She turned from a charming religious girl into a monster in about six months. Television, pop culture and other American women destroyed what she was.

Just be careful and remember the best policy to use with women: Use & discard.

Heather Mills

Abused? No. Of course not.

Heather Mills is the poster child for false abuse allegations. Her marriage to Paul McCartney was a complete con. She married him to get access to his money. When they divorced, suddenly, he was an abusive monster. Sounds like a lot of horseshit to me. I'm convinced Heather used her marriage as a business move. She allied herself to a rich man using a contract that heavily favors women when it is breached. You might have heard about this demonic contract; it's called marriage.

Now, she is making the rounds of US talk shows and nobody is questioning her lies about Paul McCartney. If you have any kind of substantial assets, let this be a lesson to you. If you are a rich man, you are very likely to be seen as a wallet to be looted, nothing more.

Taking Opportunities

Today, women expect to work and not have someone look after them. You will have to remember this in your dating/hookup life. There are still a lot of women who are looking for Prince Charming to pay all the bills and let them stay home.

The bad part about being a Captain Save-a-Ho is that you will enjoy it at first, but being 100% responsible for another person is a BAD thing. She will quickly realize that having a child will keep her at home where she can watch television all day and eat pretty much all day as well. You don't want that.

Now, getting back to working women. I did have a scam that worked really well with women for a while. During the times I was growing and selling marijuana a few years back, I would often take jobs house-sitting for people when they went out of town. It was easy work and I would set up shop and work online at their homes. Usually the homes were the $300,000 to million dollar types. I'd have delicatessens deliver food, packages dropped off, etc.

One day in Vista, California, I had some motorcycle gear shipped to a house I was staying in. It was a nice place and the FedEx girl was a really attractive and athletic blonde. I was the last stop on her route for the day. We talked, she liked "my" house and I got her to come back that evening for dinner.

Before she came back, I hid all the stuff that would easily give the place away as someone elses. All the magazines disappeared - all the new mail. I stashed those and had some wine open and an old romantic movie on when she arrived. I told her owning such a nice home was fantastic but lonely. She was so sympathetic, but I also knew she was a golddigger. We fucked all night. It was so romantic. I was everything she wanted in a man; easy-going, friendly and up for paying for everything. She was everything I wanted; beautiful, ready to fuck me all night and just a really sweet girl. It was an added plus that she was very clean with perfect teeth.

If I hadn't had my new Arai helmet dropped off at that house, I never would have slept with her. I think her name was Allison, but I did get really trashed that night. I remember she had really great tits, and a little tattoo of a butterfly right below her bellybutton. I saw her only one more time, we went to a movie theatre and started making out; then back to her place for about a half hour of sex. I had already finished my housesitting by that point, so I told her I'd call her and just moved on.

You have to take these opportunities when they come up. No woman really wants to be tied to one man. They really just want someone to pay their bills. Remember, its' all about having your money; controlling the way it is spent and keeping you under control. You aren't there for sex after it becomes an official "relationship", you are simply there to pay bills and fix things around the house.

Women: Use, then discard.

Always Wear a Condom

Unless you are absolutely certain the girl is sterile and clean of diseases. Why do this? Heres' a horror story:

Jim is a corporate wage slave in middle America. He works his ass off for a department of women managers that always try and take credit for his work. He is married to a woman who decided she hated sex immediately after marriage, so he is frustrated and unhappy.

Jim meets Debbie, a very sweet girl about his age, but somewhat depressed. They work together on a project and find themselves at her place one day to pick up a file. One thing leads to another and they have sex all afternoon - without a condom. They don't use a condom because Debbie swears to God and her mother's grave that she is on the pill and cannot get pregnant.

Nine months later, Dylan is born. Jim is now divorced and paying child support for his child from his first marriage and for young Dylan. He loves his children, but hates the women in his life. He found out Debbie didn't care anything for him, just wanted to trap some poor fool into giving her a child.

This is why you wear a condom. If you aren't having anally receptive sex with IV drug users, you don't really need to worry about AIDS. You do have to worry about herpes and other nasty bugs, but the nastiest bug of all is 18 years of child support payments backed up by the force of the law.

Wear a condom. Wear a condom. Always, always, always wear a condom. Never have kids in the West. It is too damned expensive and you'll most likely end up divorced and separated from your kids.

Elise

Just this summer I was dating a Real Estate agent named Elise. She was very average; beautiful face, but not a Miss Universe or anything. We got drunk on our first date; Spanish food and Chianti. We went back to my place and continued drinking wine. We watched a DVD of the movie Serenity and started making out on the sofa. Before we were half into the movie, we were back in the bedroom going at it. The next few weeks were incredible fun. We went out, drank and messed around. Once I met her at her office and she asked me to put my fingers inside of her right there at work. Crazy, right?

So, after we'd been the hot new couple in town for a few weeks, she tells me she is going away for the weekend to ride horses with friends. Well, I knew a coworker of hers from a long time ago. After she left on her trip, I called him and asked what was up. Apparently, there were no horses on this trip. She was going to have a weekend away with her ex-boyfriend CJ. I didn't call her or make any plans.

When she got back, I asked her to do favor after favor for me. She took my dog to the vet for me - and paid for his shots; she bought me some shirts at JCrew and even brought me lunch at work. After about two weeks of this, she got a little testy with me and called me up. She said we didn't have any time together and she didn't want to run errands for me anymore. Most importantly, she was interested in having sex again.

"But I can't do that." I said. Without missing a beat, she says "why not?"

I told her I knew she had sneaked away to sleep with CJ so I wasn't about to sleep with her again. She was humiliated. A woman getting caught screwing around is the most scared creature in the world. We pretty much broke up at that point, but she tried over and over to get back with me, saying the whole thing with CJ was a big mistake.

You can't trust women these days. Just enjoy them if you know they are safe, but always watch out for signs of cheating and be aware that women love to screw around with married men. They consider it a "safe" relationship with no strings attached. Married men know this and screw around constantly.

Remember, when it comes to women: Use, then discard.

Observations

I've found if you live in a town with an abundance of women, they will all flock to the bad boy types. In a general population, about 35% of the single guys are banging just about all the single women. I know this sounds insane, but it is true.

Don't forget that all women (with very few exceptions) are hypergamous; which means they are only interested in bedding men that are superior to them. This means: he has more money than she does. If you can create an image of wealth or easy money, you can score very easily with women.

The men who learn this early on are very successful screwing around. Of course confidence goes a long way, but money is the main motivator for women. A new shirt and a nice car will take you most of the way. Your confidence and bullshitting skills will close the deal. Sweeten the whole process with a little alcohol and you are guaranteed to score.

Now, I'd always known women were generally attracted to wealth. When I was married and the dot-com boom was going on, I was making money and getting great sex at home and with random girls when I was on the road. It was great, but mostly just recreational. Eventually, you want something more. Unfortunately, my ex was more of the psycho hose-beast type so life with her was just physical release, not much more.

I started craving a more emotional relationship. I wanted to fall in love with women, have unbelievable sex, then back away when the freshness of the experience started to fade. This is what I found:

If you can keep a long conversation going with a few women on the internet at the same time, you can slowly convince them that you care about them as a person. You can slowly introduce flirtations and sweet compliments - playing her heart like a harp; beautiful things but respectfully keeping distance.

Over time, this causes a woman to fall in love with you very deeply. When you finally meet, and then decide to have sex, it is so powerful that it is like sex times ten. It is an amazing emotional and physical connection. Now I know some of you are saying things like "Wait a minute! That's real love! You shouldn't play with people like that!"

To an extent, that is a correct sentiment, however, men have to realize that women aren't interested in a man after a certain point. After 2-3 years in a relationship, women get just as bored as men. They fall out of love with most men they are linked with. Of course, there are exceptions; I once dated a girl who was completely head over heels in love with her ex-boyfriends who had dumped her 4 years before I met her. Four years! She still wistfully spoke of him as though he was the greatest man who ever graced the planet with his feet.

So, sometimes love (or psychosis) lasts a long time, but most of the time it only goes a few years. That is why the divorce rate is so high.

Gotta run. More observations later.

Your Online Guide to Dealing with Women

I'm 40 years old, a confirmed bachelor who has had most of the typical experiences men have with women. I enjoy women, I think the body design was brilliant (kudos to God), but I think the brains of women are so overcharged with emotion that they cannot function without strict moral and social codes to keep them in check.

Unfortunately, we live in a time when there are few checks on women and they are out of control. Women are much more promiscuous, much more masculine, much more infected with social diseases and downright difficult to enjoy.

Many people have claimed that women were always the way they are today. Bullshit! If that were true, most women through history would have spent most of their lives whoring around, then finding a chump to marry at age 39 so they could whelp one "designer" child before getting absurdly fat.

No, women these days are creatures of a new social model; one that works quite well for single men but not too well for women. I'll be expanding on these themes throughout this blog as well as giving practical advice for dealing with women and enjoying them physically with the least difficulty and expense possible.

Cheers,

The Master